We’re mid 30s and fairly new to this but as we learn our way through it and she has seemed to enjoy there are three main times for a lockup. She does not currently have a lot of interest it 24/7 (and I’m kinda thankful for that) 1. Punishment/attitude adjustment if for whatever reason I’m not treating her as the queen she is. 2. For fun. Locked up undisclosed time or play a game to determine lockup time (roll the dice). Locktober would be this category too. 3. motivational. Here is a list of things I’d like done this weekend and if everything is perfect I MIGHT let you out Sunday night. For us a lot of the thrill is in her having control on when it goes on and when it goes off. Just curious how others use it in FLR lifestyles.