How do you know if you are submissive?

"How do you know is you are a submissive?"

Before the first day of my chastity, I was not a submissive at all
In fact my KH wife was submissive and I was always dominant
But chastity has gradually transformed both of our natures so much,
That now she is not only dominant but a dictator and
I am somewhere between a submissive and a slave
Our troubled relations are not only over, but both of us are enjoying life like never before

 

If you say so.