I'm a single, straight, submissive, middle-aged man looking for a monogamous long-term 24/7 relationship with a kinky, sadistic woman who wants to be in control all the time. I haven't joined sites like alt.com because the sites seem to be in it only for the subscription fees and most of the profiles suggest that the people are just playing around. I haven't dated in years because it's just too frustrating being in a "normal" relationship, but even when I did date it was always just one person at a time. how do I find a woman genuinely interested in this lifestyle?
Hiya Welcome to CM this is not going to be much help as its not a dating site and we don't have a very high density of members if you take numbers spread world wide . You are also looking for the one in a million women at best . You just need to start dating and AFTER a respectful period of time and sorting a nice vanilla relationship gently raise the issue and see what she says. Xx Wendy