How are you most likely to celebrate your anniversary with your partner?

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How are you most likely to celebrate your anniversary with your partner?

  1. Locked, with no teasing.

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  2. Locked, with teasing.

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  3. Unlocked, with teasing but no release.

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  4. Unlocked, with vanilla sex.

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  5. Unlocked, no-holds-barred sex with a happy ending for all.

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    Today is our wedding anniversary and we are well into our third decade of bliss. I was told two weeks ago and reminded. again this morning that I will remain locked with no chance of release and that I will service her tonight if she is in the mood. I love this lifestyle!
    I am curious how all of you typically celebrate your anniversaries?
     
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    We do something romantic, before being chaste i expected sex and she would feel obligated. Not any more! This way is better for both of us!
     
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    Sounds familiar! This is much more exciting. The last time we tried chastity a few years ago she would always give in but something has changed this time and I like it. :lock::)
     
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    This year was our first anniversary since we started chastity and the fully chaste lifestyle. But i think it is indicative of what future years will be like. I wondered if our anniversary would involve a release but it didn't. It did involve sex acouple of times and it was special but sex is always special now in this new relationship. The focus was on every other part of the day that made it special i.e. an overnight trip away from home, lunch, wine tastings, dinner, lounging by the pool, etc. That is what made it a special day. My release just wasn't in the rhythm of our current lifestyle. Because the intimacy level was so elevated, i was straining at the confines of my cage, leaking and had difficulty sleeping. That made it very memorable!
     
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    Usually but not always she wants to have internal intimacy. Ours is coming up, we'll see what she decides this year.
     
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    We normally just have a night in, il get a bottle of something fizzy for madam and a gift, I will worship her and tell her how thankful I am to her for owning and keeping me, there will be some teasing and denial and then kissing and cuddling, and then it’s bed time.
     
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    @Rectrix, you have inspired me to start observing the anniversary of giving myself completely to her and asking her to take ownership of the key to my sexuality something I should have done at the beginning of our marriage. I think the expectation of that anniversary will be to be locked and to experience the kind of sex we had the first week of our journey with the cage securely in place.
     
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    Looks like “locked with teasing” is easily winning the poll so far, but responses were more mixed than I expected.
    Nothing for either of us this year, she has been tired from work the last several nights.
     
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    So were you at least able to mark your anniversary in other ways that made it a special remembrance or is that still to come (not cum)? :)

    I mentioned this idea to my wife and I could tell she liked it. She later came back to it and asked about the date because she wants to remember it. :)
     
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    Chastiversary!
     
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    You didn't have a suitable answer. It's just another day in the lifestyle for us. We will, however have drinks, a nice meal.
     
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    Sure, we did our favorite thing…spent time together! I took off from work and spent a little time in her world. We tried a couple of restaurants we had never been to, and had some great conversations in between her sales calls. I got some chores done while she was busy on the phone and freed up more time to spend with her and the grandkids over the weekend. It was great!
     
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    Our wedding anniversary is in October. Since She has already informed me,on the eve of my birthday, that I am allowed to ask for an O on Thanksgiving day, I know that this year will be similar to last year.

    We will go on our anniversary trip to the little beach town where we spent our honeymoon. She will have forgotten to bring the key. I will spend my nights giving Her pleasure and we will spend our days enjoying the relaxing beach atmosphere!
     
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    Sounds wonderful!
     
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    We just really started chastity play in earnest. I anticipate being unlocked, but that's still about 6 months away. I've read enough of this forum to know that many wives really get into it once it becomes more routine.
     
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    I'll let you know after tonight, but we are newer and still a work in progress. I'm not locked 24/7 at the moment, so I'm assuming will be out of the cage for full action. But things could change here in the next few weeks as she seems to be more accepting/adapting to all of this
     
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    Well, it was an uneventful night, she was exhausted and went to bed early which is fine. So locked and no teasing here, but one can hope perhaps this weekend will be different.
     
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    My wife likes to lock me up a week or 2 before our anniversary then we usually get a room the night of (cause we have teenagers at home lol) anyway we usually go out to dinner and do something afterwards last year it was a Jeff Dunham Show at the Ted...then we will go back to the hotel for the night and I end up unlocked after spending some time taking care of her, whether that be oral or massages ...what ever but yeah we have sex on our anniversary!
     
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