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    Found this site while looking for info on female chastity (specifically, the leather belts look most comfy, but how clean are they and what kind of care do they need?)

    We're just beginning on this journey of bdsm together; I've always been Dominant, but never submissive like this. He hasn't explored at all. We both find ourselves strongly gravitating towards the head trips around teasing fantasies of this kind of restriction, pleasure, denial, and control.

    Probably the strangest thing in our relationship is that while I am submissive and the one wearing the chastity device, he is monogamous to me. I am not and cannot be sexually monogamous to him (in "real life" I am an escort, and love my chosen "profession").

    Just mainly having a hard time finding even the most basic info on female chastity belts and their care.
     
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    That is interesting, an escort in a chastity belt sounds like a paradox.
    I imagine leather wouldn't do well for 24/7 use, and a stainless steel belt
    would be best for that, but those are expensive. Hope someone here
    can help. Good luck!
     
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    Mistress Watchful Dont believe the hype ;oP

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    My understanding of Escorts is the same as Pro-Dommes... there is no sex!!!

    Therefore female chastity could be seen as a safety measure under those circumstances, what a great idea!

    I dabbled a little with a leather belt:

    My Experiment

    There's not much in there, because it really didn't work... BUT I was very tempted to get a full steel belt, and may well do some time in the future.

    Give that thread a quick flick through and let me know if you have any questions. :Locker:
     
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    Oh and :welcome: to the site curiousgirl. :Tulip_Up:
     
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    Welcome!

    i have to say, your being an escort with a chastity device is absolutely wonderful. And it can be a really good source of tease and denial for your client with a really big, unfortunate surprise for him if he decides to get aggressive. i think you've given me a really good chuckle here.

    i cannot speak for the kinds of issues women go through while in chastity. With men, it seems to be a really great device for behavioral modification, when he is in the right hands. i'm not sure if your boyfriend intends to modify behavior or if he's just looking for assurances.

    There are lots of reviews at the Altarboy website and they may deal with cleaning. If what you are using is leather, i think you will find that it's great for occasional play but absolutely useless for 24/7 chastity. i think you'd need some means by which you can go to the bathroom and also deal with female hygiene issues.

    i did blow through a few of the Altarboy links on the page above. Many simply don't work. i did check some of the reviews and they are still working. i would imagine you will have to pick through them to find reviews for female chastity devices, as most are for the men.
     
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    Thanks for the cool responses- I'm going thru the alterboy site now... and just at the beginning of Mistress Watchful's story.

    The other night he ordered me this leather chastity belt: http://www.4him4her.co.uk/red-leather-female-chastity-belt-3-x-options-502-p.asp ... and will probably "upgrade" to a metal one if in another month or 2 we still find ourselves into this play. I won't be wearing it more than overnight or around 16 hours at a time. We see eachother almost daily and try to connect before and after my "appointments" as an escort. So this should be a sexy addition to the routine (reconnecting after an appointment, getting locked up overnight, connecting in the morning before an appointment and unlocked... ). We've been fantasizing about the chastity belt idea for the past month since we surfed onto an antique reproduction on Amazon.com.

    It's just hot to think of being denied my own pleasure as I fall asleep at night or awake in the morning. It seems like it would be naughty to wear out and about, that it would make me focus on receiving pleasure from other parts of my body. He has told me that they key on his keychain is a sexy naughty idea. The small mysterious key next to the car, home, and office keys...

    I do have sex with most of my clients as an escort. Escorting releases that powerful femme-fatale vibe inside of me.I think it's hot to go from being powerful and super in charge of meaningless relations to being completely surrendered to my own passions for my lover. Submitting probably balances me out in a weird way. Eventhough he owns a company, he's often in the "submissive" position at work (to boards of directors, managers, etcetera), so being dominant with me probably balances him out also.

    The escorting aspect... is also very hot, probably in the same way that the hotwife scenario is sexy - I get paid very well, but in the end I come back to my lover and submit to him. Or I've started to come back and submit; I used to just call and tell him afterwards how my appointment went (it can be surreal sometimes, usually). He started off as a client-turned-confidant and then a became lover when we found ourselves wanting to spend more time together than he could afford.

    Exploring my submissive side is totally new to me, and it only started to come out a few months ago when we went to a sex store together for the first time and found the same leather waist cincher'n'cuffs set the most arousing thing. Putting it on, letting myself be restrained and waist tightly bound... I would never be so vulnerable in the role of escort, and probably, for me the submission has been a way to show my trust and love for him... which he appreciates (and extra so, as a man who has seen escorts for the past 15 years, he has similarly never had a woman willing to surrender such control to him).

    This is totally new to me, to us... thanks again for the nice openminded welcome.
     
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    You mean to say that you havent been following the Belle De Jour series!! There is a brilliant episode in the first series where she tries a little Pro Domming and finds it a bit too "extreme"..
     
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    I must have missed that one! I think I've only joined Belle of late and just got stuck on the Sploshing...
     
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    Buy it on DVD, it'll crack you up!
     
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