I just wanted to put myself out there in the community and say hi. I’ve always wondered what it would be like to be locked. Every time I read about chastity or see videos, it’s always portrayed as a way to control, humiliate, or feminize men. I wouldn’t say that this interpretation is really what I’m interested in when finding a key holder. I think of chastity as a way to tell a woman that my needs matter less than hers. I want to focus on making her happy at my expense. I want a emotional connection and not a physical one. Wasn’t the initial purpose of chastity to prevent sex anyway lol
Greetings Traveler! Welcome to The Mansion!!! I think you will find that chastity is whatever the participants make of it. I have seen people on this forum cuckheld, 100% cut off from stimulation, etc... to people that just use it to spicy things up... to people that do it solo... to everything in between. But everyone is using it to strength something in a relationship (even if that is the relationship with themselves) and/or drive a point home.
I have to agree with @King Hippo . Chastity can be what ever you want it to be. Good luck and I am sure you will find what you are searching for. There are many flavors of chastity here. Just keep an open mind while doing so. Chastity can change you sometimes in ways you would not believe.