Hi everyone I'm Kimmy a 38 year old straight, married (but bi curious CD). I've been dressing on and off since I was about 11. My wife doesn't know about my alter ego, I wish I had the courage to tell her but I fear it wouldn't end well! I have been interested in chastity for a while now without ever actually trying it, it is something I hope I can pluck up the courage to discuss with my wife soon! I also like the idea of being a slave but one step at a time hey. Hope to make lots of friends on here as I could definitely use some good advice. Thank you for taking the time to read this Kimmy xxx
hi there , you are welcome , you are in the right forum.your wife should know ,since my wife knows ,she is encouraging me to CD.. i am locked for more than 8 years now and it does a hell og good to me !! what ever you need to know ,just ask ! best regards ..GWENY
Each woman is different, some will encourage and enjoy chastity play and others won't. If you have a really good sex life with your wife then I would suggest bringing into a conversation gently and with tact. If you don't have a relationship where sex is fun and enjoyable then I fear you might be disappointed
I plucked up the courage to ask for Chastity with my wife back in August. It went a lot better than I expected, although we still have a long way to go. If you think about how best to apprach her and what her likely questions will be before talking to her, it will go better. I made sure I had an answer for every question I thought she might ask. Once you are armed you just have to pick the right moment and plunge right in. You will never get what you want unless you ask for it. If you tell her in the morning that you need to talk to her that night about something important to do with your sex life, it will make it difficult then for you to back out. She will be mentally prepared for what you have to say and may be thinking of much worse things than chastity, in which case it maybe a relief for her, thats all you want. It is still fresh in my mind the day I old told my wifer. It wasn't half as bad as I thought and we are a lot more open and connected now than we have ever been because of that. Put yourself on the line and she should appreciate how difficult it was for you to 'come out'. Good luck and dont forget to post what happened on here!
Hi, welcome. You will have to tell your wife at some point. Mine was not as I thought it was going to be. I can't have sex with my wife much at all, so I'm in chastity all the time whether I'm caged or loose. ow, if she can't find an item of clothing or underwear, she blames me. Of course, everything is my fault anyway.
I asked my wife if she wanted to play a game...So I told her about the idea of chastity. She was a little shocked, but said sure "I will lock you up"
My introduction to a chastity I'm sure is very different to you all perhaps or perhaps not! I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years and although the first two years sex was electrifying.. Well, I felt that there was lots of chemistry and we did a lot of daring things which I loved and I was and I'm still besotted by him but our relationship had a bad turn and he left me for a few months. When we got together again I felt really happy to have him back but our sex life was never the same or at least it was how I felt. We moved in together but over the years he made excuses to have sex and would reject my advances too which left me feeling unloved and with very slow steem - topped with the fact that I could him at least 3 times either on PC on online chats, watching porn and about 4 weeks ago I came home early to find him naked in the back room having had a cum watching porn or something a like!! This destroyed me and I felt VERY angry!! And all he could think of was that he felt embarrassed and I wasn't meant to know !!!! Gggrrrr!!! The dishonesty , angry and lies nearly caused me to leave him once and for all! I wanted answers and I didn't get any.. All I got told was that he had watched FEMDOM porn... Well.. This I found very curious so I started to do my homework ... Watch many porn videos on xhamster but didn't take long to find out " controlling husband sex life with FEMDOM and after 38 mins.. I decided I was converted and i wanted to know more.. I told my slave about it , thinking he would be even more embarrassed but instead he was shocked to find that I had loved it and even telling him about the video made my juices flow so much that I had to take his hand and let him see for himself!! Not sure if he was shocked or excited but the following weekend I showed him the video and we ended up having passionate and very raunchy sex!! I felt I was getting my man back and soon after he suggested getting the chastity which we choose together and although it's very early days.. I feel I have the man I fell in love back in my arms... BUT I must say... It had left me with still lots of unanswered questions cis I'm still confused as time what happened 5 years were our sex was crap yet... I always wanted to take our sex life to the edge by playing with his ass and wanting a strap on but he just simply would not play on.. Why, why ohh why? Saying all of this... I want to stay positive and enjoy all the control he was giving me and I'm soo excited by the fact I get to control his sex life and there is one thing for sure... no porn and no masturbation without my presence !! How great is that!! Win - Win and this whole fetish has given me the challenge to be the best mistress ever!! I'm learning sooo much everyday ... It's great!!