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    Hi all

    I stumbled upon this site from a Reddit forum & thought it might be somewhere I'd fit in.

    I'm married with two adult children who now have their own lives and homes.

    After many years of marriage, despite our love growing stronger as time passes, sex had become a little mundane. My wife's always been quite reserved in the bedroom.

    In January 2023 I saw a CB6000S advertised on the internet. I wasn't entirely sure, but the idea exited me and was constantly on my mind. I was totally new to the idea and certainly didn't do things 'right', but for Valentine's day I self locked and gave the key to my wife with the comment "You have the key to my heart, here's the key to my cock".

    She was a little taken aback, but not shocked or disgusted; she took the key and asked how long she should make me wear it. I honestly had no idea and told her so; my first ever lock was 3 days, round the clock. I really struggled sleeping, but stuck with it rather than end the game.

    Since then, my wife's recognised the benefits to her, discovered aspects of her sexuality she was unaware of (she's become far more dominant as she's come up with punishments for infractions), and now keeps me locked unless she wants to feel me inside her.

    Our sex life is amazing, our bond has never been stronger, and her confidence has grown in all aspects of her life. I just wish we'd started the journey when we first met.

    I'm looking forward to reading the experiences of others, learning, and sharing my own insights.

    And yes - I'm locked right now in a steel cage and have been since Tuesday (4 days). I've no idea when I'll be unlocked next, but hopefully it'll be some time before next weekend.
     
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    Hello & Welcome
     
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    Caged4Sazz My wife has become my KH

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    Welcome, we're also new to chastity and from the UK.
    I can relate to all the benefits that chastity has brought to your lives!

    You should ask your KH to join and to get verified. The female opinion always holds most weight in any discussion!
     
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    Welcome to our community. Enjoy.
     
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    jemima maid for my Mistress

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    hell @JanusCaged and welcome to here and i hope you like it here as well.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Welcome from Surrey
     
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    Hi I’m in a very similar relationship to you we are in Yorkshire and with the same family set up we’ve never been closer and my wife loves the security of me being in chastity I too love a good steel cage and I’m locked full time unless I’m “needed” if you’d like to chat further I’m more than happy to in fact it would be great
     
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    Wow - what a welcome. Hi back to you all!
    I don't get much time to idly browse, so this is my first time back since I joined, but this really does feel like a friendly place.
     
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    Hi and welcome
     
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