Hello, I’ve been dabbling with chastity since 2013/2014. A lot of the journey so far was finding the right device and size for me. Trying out different cages. Around 2019 I started locking up more frequently as I found some comfortable metal cages. However I’m now in a Kink 3D and much happier as comfort is important for me to stay in chastity and I think I found the right cage/ring combo for best comfort. My wife does hold my key currently. She’s not particularly stern, but she does enjoy it. I’ve been locked about a week now and I hope to go through now and Locktober locked up. I’ve gone 3-4 weeks before so I should be able to hopefully do it.