I've been lurking here a bit, and finally registered a few days ago. I guess introductions are now in order. I'm 33, live in Wisconsin. And i'll admit, i'm fairly new to the idea of wearing a chastity device. In fact, I have one on order(Birdlock), and hopefully will be recieving it in the next week or so. I do have a question though, that maybe someone here could help me with. I have tried to search for the answer on the web, but have come up short. My google-fu is weak. So, my question is, what should a beginner know? I'm fairly certain I just can't put it on, and then forget about it. As a new user, what do I have to look for(signs of danger?), what should I expect? The ultimate goal is to wear it 24/7. The short term goal is to just wear it during the day when the wife isn't home. Do I start out wearing it just a few hours? Should it be painful at first? ETC. Thanks in advance! M.