Hi everyone, Looking forward to get owned and locked soon. Nice to be part of the forum. Looking for a female keyholder.
Namaste. You will find finding a non paid female key holder to be very difficult. After 47 years as a fetishist, the best way is to date a lot of girls and keep the ones who are sexually adventurous and willing to try new things. I once had an online Mistress but it turned out to be guy. You can checkout http://fetlife.com . They have several chastity forums and it seems most of the guys are self locking. Worth a shot. You can get a lot of info here but do not get your hopes high to find a key holder willing to do it for free. So many men looking for KH and dominant women and so few women into that. Porn makes it seem like women naturally want to dominate males but the opposite is true in real life, sad to say. Anyway, there is a wealth of information here so just ask.
As Vinny covered, you chances of finding a non-paid keyholder from the start of a relationship is marginally above 0%. Meeting someone in a relationship generally results in partners wanting to f**k each others brains out for the first few months, not chastity and denial. You may notice that the vast majority of genuine couples into chastity have been together for some time, though a lucky few kinky couples get into it early on. Many of the successful couples have taken a long time (as in many years) to get the point at which chastity in a relationship works well. There is also a gender bias in women preferring to be submissive more than men. Good luck!