I've been lurking here for a year or so and just taken the plunge. I'm 50 and been into BDSM all my life and Chastity for about 4 years. My partner is fairly new to the scene and is learning, but has taken well to holding the keys. She is amazing. It's only in the last 6 months that we have really taken chastity seriously and we are enjoying it very much. I have been locked 95% of 2024 year so far, but we hope to improve that number!