Hello everyone. Unusual chastity relatoinship

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    Well hello ladies & gentlemen.

    I am new on here and like to introduce myself.
    My name is Steel-Master,
    I am in a beatifull relationship with a great girl which happens to be my subbmissive, her name is 923-718-928.

    A few weeks ago we found out by accident that my dominant side is way more triggered when i am in chastity. So i played around with a steel cage that i had laying around. And next thing you know, you're already wearing it for 3 weeks straight with one release.

    My partner/sub is not my keyholder. She has one of the two keys, and i ordered her to hide one key in my house, so when i order her to tell me where it is, she has to. Or she is in big trouble, and she knows that.

    Now that i am 3 weeks in chastity, i wanted to try something more.
    So i ordered 2 full chastity belts 4 days back.
    One My Steel TOTAL SYSTEM belt.
    And one Acces Denied forever chastity belt.

    I would like to hear some reviews or tips/tricks from you guys on full belts and those particular brands.

    Greetings Steel-Master
     
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    Panda2010 There's a fine line between pleasure and pain

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    Hi @Steel-Master Welcome to the Mansion. Lots of info on here and lots of helpful people with all sorts of backgrounds and chastity relationships.

    Very interesting that your dominant side is way more triggered when you are in chastity. I wonder if any other guys on here have that experience?

    There is a forum on here about full belts that you might be interested in
    https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?forums/full-belts.38/

    Have fun
     
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    Greetings and welcome. Yours is definitely a more unusual relationship. Most of the men on here, if not nearly all of us, would not define as dominant, so I will be fascinated to hear how you use chastity to help bring out your dominant side. It sounds a bit counter-intuitive to me so I look forward to hearing how you make it work.

    Welcome aboard. I hope you set up a blog to keep us posted.
     
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    Welcome. Different way to "do" chastity, look forward to hearing how the dynamics work!
     
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    jemima maid for my Mistress

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    heloo @Steel-Master and welcome to here and i hope you am happy anyway.
     
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    Thanks for the warm welcome.
    I really much appreaciate it :)
     
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    To tell you some more about how it makes me more dominant.
    A few years ago i started of with a CB-6000 cage. Which in my opinion is the most shittiest cage ever created and i do not understand why it has become so popular. But anyway. I had that tried out, and the experience was allright. A few weeks later i ordered a steel cage with a uretha insert. Which was kind of fun. A little more secure. But not inescapeable.

    Then i did nothing with those toys for 3 years. And i got in a new relationship with my current partner/sub. I collared & cuffed her permantly. And then i talked to her about female chastity. We tried 2 chinese belts & acces denied. Which i do recommend for their service but not the quality of the black coating.
    Anyways, female chastity does not work out for her. So i said to her, maybe i should try chastity again. So 3 weeks ago i out the steel cage back on and wore it ever since.
    I made her old acces denied belt into a cover over my steel cage so currently while typing this, i am wearing a steel cage with a acces denied female belt on top of it. And a full belt(sortoff) feels quite good to me.
    That is also the reason i ordered My-Steel Total System belt. And i am getting a replacement belt for the old Acces Denied female belt. As a compromis for their quality that they did not deliver.

    To get to the point.
    My partner/sub mentioned that i am more aware of her and her action. We have our own rules and i watch those rules alot closer while in chastity. I see every mistake she makes and i correct or punish her in a better way.

    And i think that makes me a better dominant :)
     
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    Panda2010 There's a fine line between pleasure and pain

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    For many of the locked male subs on here chastity seems to make them more attentive to their partner and they can be better subs. So the fact that you being locked up helps you to be more aware of your partner/sub is something you probably have in common with a lot of the guys on here. But in your case this helps you to be a better dominant. This is a great twist on chastity and shows how chastity works in different ways for different couples.

    Would be great to follow how your dynamic works going forward. We are all learning from each other's experiences. So I like @LesterBallard's suggestion of a blog.

    Good luck
     
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    @Panda2010 @jemima @Chaste J. @LesterBallard

    What kind of blog would you suggest me to write on?

    I've never done blogs before so it would be new for me, but i am willing to give it a try ofcourse.
    Maybe it will be fun :)
    And i hope you can understand my englisg because i am from the Netherlands so english is not my first language.

    Love to hear from you :)
     
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    @Steel-Master i have never writ a blog as well but if i was You i wud just write things down that has happen that You have seen and done in the day and thats it really. Mistress gived me a little diary to do and thats what i write in my diary.
     
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