Hello everybody!

Just dropping by to introduce myself:

I found this site via a link on the swedish BDSM-forum Darkside, where both Minerva and I have been long time members, and I thought -Oh great! Finally a forum specialized in chastity! I've been reading a bit as a guest here for some time, but today i decided to register.

I have always known I'm a kinkster, and happily I Met my wife 18 years ago. Basically we're both switches, but that changed last fall when i became aware of the phenomena Locktober and NO-vember. I had a couple of cheap chinese devices we had messed around with a bit, and I said to Minerva: "Hey, don't you think we should give this a try?" "Hell yeah" she said. Not bad at all. Even though she's fairly openminded she was very reluctant to say the least when I showed her the first cage I bought. That was maybe three years ago.

Locktober and NO-vember came and went, and she saw what that period did to me. I told her during christmas that I was writing on a chastity contract, and that I wanted her to sit down with me some evening to read it. She said: "I'll give you two weeks starting from new years eve to get the contract ready and consider if this is what you really want". Five and a half fullwritten pages and two weeks later we sat down by the fire, and she read it all.

-Are you sure this is what you want?
-Yes Maam.
-I mean... I would never EVER be able to do this myself.
-You're not me Maam.
-I know. But you are aware that this might last 6 months or 20 years?
-Yes Maam.

We're moving on from that, and I've never been happier with any woman.

I'm so happy she said yes, and I've never felt a deeper love and devotion to a woman.