Hello, New to this site and new to introduce myself I am Self Employed living in the West Midlands currently unlocked and unowned. I have a fair bit of chastity experience although it has been a while since I was last locked. Chastity for me grew naturally out of a Femdomish past relationship. My ex started by making me paint my toenails and wear pantys as a way to deter other women from imposing upon her property namely me. She never needed to worry but my word was never enough. This grew over time especially when she discovered the porn on my computer. Looking at other women was not ok so she would tie a pair of pantys around my member which she expected to be in place when she next saw me. After we split up these ideas stayed with me and thanks to the blossoming of kink on the internet around 2004 I found out about chastity devices which scared and fascinated me at the same time. After much reading and dreaming I eventaully ordered a cb2000 and popped it on. it was so uncomfortable and impractical but I stuck with it. Soon I met my first true keyholder and my training began. Later I would consider myself comfortable dressed as a French maid, locked in 5 inch heels and a CB3000 doing chores. Being a sissy wasnt my idea but she loved it and I was there to please so I obeyed. Happy times. After some time away from it all I recently purchased a pink holy trainer and I am amazed at the improvement in comfort and ease of use. One day I will get a custom made stainless steel device as I hope to have the honour of exploring long term wear for a keyholder. Chastity has a remarkable effect upon my personality. I have a high sex drive which magnifys the effects of denial considerably I do find that chastity play needs to be approached with great respect as it is no light matter for me submitting in this way. I do hope one day to find a keyholder but I am in no great rush The last thing I would want to do is waste a keyholders time. I feel it needs to be done properly and it must be somthing that I give my all to. I am always happy to chat to anyone and to share ideas. I love to read deeply on this subject and I must say I love the feel of this forum and I am excited to participate. Many thanks.
Welcome to cm. Sounds like the ex really was fun and helped get you into this and I hope you find someone who is perfect for you and you her
She was great we have lost touch now and have both moved on. Not sure it if was love or Stockholm Syndrome. It was a long time ago and she took a lot of getting over. When we were together she was furious most of the time both physically and mentally abusive. It was lucky I had a submissive side to start with. She was great though and wish her well. She accelerated my development a lot and I thank her for that. Thanks for the welcome.
Well it’s best you are out of it and no one was injured!! It’s nice you wish her well also. So at least you got some good experiences and advancement and now off to better more stable things like more bdsm and and chastity!!!!