Been surfing here for a while, decided to make a profile so I can ask a few questions. Been together with my wife for 20+ years. Almost sexless marriage for the last 10. While looking for ways to overcome a sexless marriage I came across chastity. Wife is pretty vanilla and didn't think she would be down for it but to my surprise she was. Worked through a few cages and finally found one that fit. We've played around with constant lock up for about a month now. I have noticed in that time we've become more intimate. Love the changes so far and hoping this will rekindle our physical relationship.