Hi all!! my wife is now used that i am wearing a cage. She only does not understand the power she have. This weekend the kids are staying with the grandparents and I thought this is a opportunity to give her a free pass. Only to do whatever she likes only for thanking her for what she is doing for me. Normally she is feeling guilty when she is on the couch resting and I am doing laundry our cooking diner. What is the best way to tell her this? BIG thanks
Tell her that you recieve really great energy doing things for her. And it feels great to serve her. When she realizes you enjoy serving her and you explain things as energy and not "horny" she will most likely start to embrace it differently
I love you so much, You work so hard for our family, dear, with the children going away this weekend, I want to repay you. So, starting the day, the children are at their grandparent's house. You are my Queen and I would like to wait on you this whole weekend, taking care of your needs and removing the burden of the house. Do not make it about you or your needs! Do not make it about chastity! Do not make it about sex unless she alludes to it. Make every day about your wife and Her needs. The biggest problem, men make it about their fantasy.
Tell her you are 100% focused on her today and are there to serve her in any way she desires. If she not one to take advantage of such a request, you could offer specific suggestions such as I would love to give you a bath to help you relax, let's go out for dinner - I'll make the reservations, or how would like a massage tonight?
As has been said, focus on her. Make her realize that a caged hubby is an attentive one. Let her know you love doing things for her and treating her a like queen. It might be a slow process so don't rush it. Just give her time to learn the power of chastity
Talk with her about it, but understand it takes time. There is a lot of habit learned over a lot of years that has to be unlearned, no different than what you have to go through wearing a cage, prioritizing her needs, etc. It doesn't happen overnight and everyone is different. We talk all the time about the difficulties we both have adapting to the new reality, and how the societal norms within which we were raised did a very good job of hardwiring us a certain way.