First experiences of a gay couple

I'm now in the second round of orgasm denial. Never dreamed it could be so wonderful. The first round lasted 15 days for which I was caged only for the second half while waiting for the cage to arrive. Managed to be disciplined for the first half.

I think that I drove my boyfriend crazy with my incessant talk of sex, arousal and wanting my volcano to explode with joy. Just couldn't stop myself, but sensing his disapproval, I have managed to reduce how much I say, although it is constantly on my mind. Night and day, day and night, but frankly just a wonderful feeling of desire.

This whole crazy idea came from me and I have had to convince him that however many times I say I want release, he should know that deep down I need the denial. He has taken this quite seriously and is taking cues from me as to how long each round of denial should be. But of course it's his decision and he will make the judgment call as to when I really should enjoy the release.

He refuses point blank to tell me how many days I will be in denial for, which in itself excites me. I have said that I am expecting to go for maybe 28 days in this second round, but yesterday, after telling me again to be patient, he indicated that I might need extra patience. I get the feeling that I may well be going beyond the 28 days and with his continual refusal to give even an idea of how long I'm wondering whether this may turn out to be months not weeks.

Our sex has changed and focuses even more on my arse, which works well for me as I am a gay bottom. I am occasionally fisted, but now this has turned into a regular event. He really knows how to gently pressure my prostrate and when he gets to my sweet spot, it just flows and flows out of my cock like a stream. I'm not sure whether this is pre-cum or cum itself. It's probably both. Such a new feeling for me: the flow is almost as though I'm pissing, but it's not piss, but (pre-)cum. I just love it.

But what is even better is that I still feel horny. After he's played with me and emptied his huge load into my arse, it's time to relax a little before having even more fun. This is generally when I start to masturbate and he awakes from a doze to take over also roughly playing with my nipples. But now I've come to appreciate why he leaves my cage on during sex: while he's dozing I've taken to playing with my cock through the cage ... and I'm sure that in this highly charged state I would cum within seconds, if it weren't for the cage.

If he ever takes the cage off, we'll have to work out a way to stop me playing with myself while he dozes.

I have had one orgasm, which was at the end of the first 15 days. Wow what a feeling: it felt like i would never stop; and after being milked before he turned to my cock, I was just amazed that I had more left to squirt ... and really wanted to too. Wow ...

Now into day 12 of the second round and have the feeling that this is going to reach the one month maybe even two month point. Although feel a desperate urge to cum I've started to enjoy the oxytocin-induced stronger bonding with my boyfriend: it's almost enough (though never quite enough) to caress every part of his fantastic body.

Loving it, but wondering whether I can stay the course to the one month point

 

This is my caged cock on the 12th day of round 2

 

Yes, the contradictory feelings of so desperately wanting to cum, but adoring a state of euphoria. For the time being I think I'll be the one that's ridden

 

Yes, it seems that my cock is becoming a redundant asset, just something to be caged and forgotten about. Although it does keep reminding me

 

I am being put in my place Quite right

So you want me locked too, @Andy88?

 

Yes, that's the one I have. Apart from the size (it is too big) I like the bars going length ways: I can pull back my foreskin and really clean the head

I saw this one https://www.bon4.com/ which also has length way bars, bit seem closer together so cleaning may not be as easy. Also it's 10 times the price

 

Found this one on Etsy. Don't know, if anyone has any experience of it. Affordable, lengthway bars and a big choice of ring sizes. Not sure whether I should choose the 80mm (base ring to end) or 68mm version

https://www.etsy.com/listing/1249535006/male-chastity-devicemen-cock

 

My current flaccid length varies a lot. Currently it is about 1cm (10mm) from the end of the current big cage. The longer Etsy cage (80mm) would be about 1cm (10mm) shorter than my current flaccid length

 

I'll get measuring the various flaccid states. Thanks

 

What an honest post about your experiences ... and thoughts on how to get the right cage. I'll certainly go smaller, but am a little fearful of piercing. Never ruled out, just not there at the moment

Many thanks

 

Starting to sound interesting Won't tell your wife. Not sure my BF would happy with this

 

After many measurements and a little squashing as you suggest I've settled on a 60mm cage, which is 10mm shorter than my shortest flaccid without squashing

You're probably right that later I will need an even smaller one later

Nice that people are enjoying me being locked up in Andy's cellar. Enjoying the thought of it myself. Nothing is too demeaning for me

 

Day 14 without release and I've just had the most amazing sex

My BF was quite tired so just lay on his back and expected me to make the running. After a lengthy bit of foreplay he asked me to sit on his above average tool, which, of course, I was extatic about doing

The only thing he did was to move (yes, everybody) my overlong cage to a position that would be comfortable for both. He still doesn't take it off and reminds me that I was the one that asked to be caged

Unlike last time there was no milking of my prostrate so I was bursting to orgasm. Whether I faced forward or back, his cock always found my sweet spot, never enough to milk me, but always enough to feel euphoric with every thrust

It wasn't long before he shot his load and lay back to relax. I lay down next to him and cuddled him so, so tightly. I'm always so desperate to do this since being denied my own orgasm. The oxytocin high methinks

He wanted to shut his eyes and I had to keep still, but these waves of full body "orgasms" kept hitting me (I've had the same feelings before using a prostrate massager). These are not orgasms with ejaculation, but my whole body goes into spasms and my breathing stutters. And the more I tried to relax (and not disturb him) the more these waves kept hitting me. It was heavenly

Has anybody experienced these?

Eventually I did quieten down, then a little later - just to tease - he fondled my balls hanging from the cage

That was it. No more sex, no release and I continue to count the days. Tomorrow will be 15, the exact number I had before release in round one, but I doubt very much my cage will be coming off tomorrow

Because he won't give me a number I started counting to 28 days, which he has taken as a signal. He's even mentioned that it might be more than this: all I get is "patience, patience"

I told him today I so desperately want him to make me cum, but he's learnt that this is just a spur-of-the-moment request and that deep down I want him to say "no". All I got today as a response was a smile, a hug and the comment that this is what I wanted

So I expect I'll be contuing this post on the future while counting 28, 29, 30, 31... without any relief in sight

Shouldn't complain. It's a wonderful feeling