Hi all! I am relatively new to chastity, having gotten my first cage on Nov 5th of this year. It is a RayCity metal cage (I set up an album so you can see it in action) and it has worked pretty well so far. I have been locked up for most of the time since, with 3 days out for my kh and 4 days out due to wear/rub marks. I was married, but am now gay. My bf is my kh. I have done extensive hypnosis work that has developed my submissiveness and my need to serve. I find chastity is reinforcing a lot of my training and bringing it further out. I am amazed at the strength and power of the feelings I have been having during my journey. It’s something that I am grappling with and working on. I love what is happening, but am amazed at how much I want and now need this cage and the feelings of submission that come with it. I am on day 18 with no release, and am amazed at how horny I am now. I also love how i am really learning that it’s no longer about me, and it’s all about how I can serve. I have a ton of questions, but will leave those for other forum posts. Thanks to all that I have met here so far! I only wish there were more gay guys to share my experience with.
There are a few gay men here but I have to imagine that wanting to serve your partner is the same regardless of gender. Please feel free to participate either in forum messages or online chat.