Does your KH/Domme/Mistress use kink related social media?

Discussion in 'Female led relationships' started by WWSUB, May 24, 2023.

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Does your KH like and or use kink related social media?

  1. KH likes kink related social media and is active often.

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  2. KH has no interest in being involved in kink related social media and never bothered.

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    64.1%

  3. KH uses kink related social media for research only.

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  4. Other (please explain below)

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  1. WWSUB
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    #1 WWSUB, May 24, 2023
    I’m curious about this because over the last 8 years of chastity and FLR my wife has shown no interest in creating an account here or fetlife. I’ve encouraged it but not pushed it. I very much enjoy talking with others in our community and I feel like I’m learning new things all the time. My wife just likes to do her own thing. I never know if she looks at any lifestyle related stuff. She certainly doesn’t need too and we have lots of fun with her ideas. I have just found that talking to others and having friends here is very beneficial to me and progress as her sub. I always hoped she’d want to join some sort of femdom related or incorporated social media site and meet some people and make some domme friends. I think she’d benefit from having others to talk to in the lifestyle other than myself.
     
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    #2 FLRAdvocate, May 24, 2023
    My KH has no social media presence whatsoever other than her Snapchat page she uses to keep up with news and whatnot. She'll use Google to find out what she needs to know about whatever, and that's about it.
     
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    #3 cumslave_2002, May 26, 2023
    My Goddess Wife is a long time member here on CM, but doesn’t come on much lately. If I tell her about, or show her a interesting thread, she might read it. And even respond.
    She is much more active on Fetlife. She chats to her friends on there, keeps up with local events, etc.
    You can find her on Fetlife as ms_shauna. She will respond to messages, however she gets plenty. So you might have to wait for a response. We both have lots of RL pictures on our profiles. So enjoy.
     
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    #4 Disciplined Boyfriend, May 27, 2023
    Lady C has zero interest in kink related social media. She has researched some particular facets of our play though.

    She knows of my presence here, on FetLife and other link sites. We discuss my online friends and she will actively inquire about them from time to time. So behave, I may have to report back.

    Her only request is to keep her as anonymous as possible.

    A
     
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    #5 madams-sissysub, Jun 1, 2023
    My Madam stopped using kink social media years ago, she was fed up with the flow of messages from sub guys trying to get some on line fun for free.
     
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    #6 WWSUB, Jun 1, 2023
    That seems to be an issue for sure. I have pictures of my wife in the gallery and I’ll have other subs leave comments asking for my wife to be there mistress. I mean aren’t you even going to look at the profile first to get some sort of semblance of who the person is…. And then realize you're leaving your comment on her husbands account lol.
     
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    #7 Disciplined Boyfriend, Jun 1, 2023
    That's exactly the same questions I get asked.

    A
     
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    #8 madams-sissysub, Jun 1, 2023
    I’ve had only good comments here to be fair, but fetlife was terrible, as soon as they see cuckold in the bio they think there in! And some are relentless. So we just deleted it. Then In time Madam deleted her kink Facebook as well.
     
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    #9 gingers_sub, Jun 1, 2023
    My wife has no use for kink online.
    She has a profile on Fetlife but never visits it.
     
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    #10 WWSUB, Jun 1, 2023
    Agreed, most of the comments received here are tasteful or respectful. I do have a couple of raunchy photos which understandably get dirtier comments. It’s one thing to leave a “that’s so hot” comment versus what you’d do to my wife lol. I always share the comments with my wife as she enjoys reading them. But there have been a few where she’s thinking WTF did they just write :)
     
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    #11 Aussiecple, Jun 2, 2023
    Very active on Twitter, Fetlife and BDSMLR :)

    Yes the multitude of direct messages and unsolicited dick pics can be annoying but that is what the block button is for :strong:

    Have met some great people both online and in real life through being active on kink media :)
     
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    #12 Giles_English, Jun 2, 2023
    I'm pretty sure this one will win:

    KH has no interest in being involved in kink related social media and never bothered. ​

    Most of our partners like chastity and FLR because it makes things simpler for them to get what they want. Women who make a hobby out of it are wonderful, but rare.
     
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    #13 madams-sissysub, Jun 2, 2023
    Just the same here, and just wanted to say I love the shirt your wearing in your profile pic.
     
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    #14 WWSUB, Jun 2, 2023
    Thank you! I’ve always really liked your pink catsuit in your pic :)
     
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    #15 Headtrip, Jun 2, 2023
    My Queen enjoys kink social media, especially female run (when you can find it), but clearly its not the same level of focus as I, so she is on weekly or monthly vs daily...
     
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    #16 bknd90, Jun 4, 2023
    I'm just starting a dynamic with a local mistress who's become a really important person to me in my life. We've started bumming into each other at femdom parties/munches regularly for the last 8 months. This past month we have started to really get close and are on the verge of starting a true dynamic (we are both kinda playing it by ear/experimenting cus this will be our first time doing this).

    She only uses Fet to stay connected in your community/groups, however, she's not really active and uses it only as a means of communication. She's much older than me so her perspective of social media is different than mine. I'm active on a variety of platforms - reddit, twitter, discord, bdsmlr, fet, etc. I enjoy watching different porn, connecting with friends, erotica/reading, learning kink, etc.
     
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    #17 Cecilia B, Jun 12, 2023
    I'm the keyholder and I use it. Husband doesn't..
     
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    #18 shannonsanders, Jun 14, 2023
    Yes, not that much right now. Things aren’t static especially over many years. She used both vanilla and fetish sites for connecting with others. She dated a woman she met on FL a few times. There were other hook ups a few years ago besides that.

    Social media requires both drive and work, especially if you are trying to use it to connect in real life. The pandemic and other midlife stress has squelched things but there are some signs of life lately.
     
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    #19 jemima, Jun 14, 2023
    She go on the Fetlife one. but dont let me.
     
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    #20 WWSUB, Jun 14, 2023
    Each time I open a fetlife account I always end up deleting it. I want to use it for the social connection aspect but then I just end up browsing the pics and essentially just looking at porn which is what I’m trying not to do.
     
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    #21 hardbodysub, Jun 14, 2023
    That’s quite understandable. A shame so many guys try to abuse the privilege.
     
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    #22 Tincan66, Jun 21, 2023
    I would have no idea as my wife is very secretive about what she dose or where she gets her information, since she got us back into chastity I have asked her may time why now , she just smiles and says because it’s time . She knows so much I sometimes think she can read my mind
     
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