I am looking for ideas for how to bring denial December up to her. We did a small contract for NO-November and she was open to it. But I am drawing a blank on what can be done for December. She is very vanilla and not to the stage where chastity cage is accepted. But she is starting to bring up the contract if I step out of line. So little steps are good. Any help would be great.
Denial December in particular is ideal for a vanilla! Bring each day until close to orgasm, each according to the day number. So on 1 December once on the second December twice and so on. You can do something ACTIVE with each other, in which you in the best case, not cum and she has more than enough reasons to try a strapon that you apply to her or that you help her with tongue and toys to orgasm. So in the end she can enjoy the complete December and you can suffer the complete December. Sure, it is an art to edgen on 31 December a total of 31 times and really not to let the chaste cum, but is also a good exercise for her. This does not have to be done "one right after the other", but can be spread throughout the day. https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Denial December You can edgen a few times and then bring her to orgasm and she can edgen again. Just try it out, she can only win, just like you.