Decided to make an introduction

So I've been a member and an occasional lurker for a long time but never completed my profile or posted. I know...sorry.
Anyway, as I wrote in my profile tonight, my wife and I have been married for a long time raising a busy family and keeping a professional career. I'm submissive and have a kinky side. She's got a naturally confident and dominant personality but definitely vanilla. She's been willing to indulge me because she wants to make me happy. More recently, it seems she has been growing more comfortable with the idea of being in control. In the last few months, she has reached a place where she doesn't feel guilty about receiving pleasure and/orgasm while denying mine. She has also been more receptive to playing with chastity. It's always been my kink and she plays along. This is still generally the way it is but she seems to be more open to playing the game lately. I hope we continue to move toward more enjoyment of chastity and FLR. It seems the best approach is to go slowly and make sure the focus is on pleasing and serving her.
I'm curious to hear from others who may have traveled a similar journey...