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Discussion in 'Introductions' started by Xitalbic, Jan 14, 2020.

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    Hello, everyone. I've been lurking for several years, observed much, learned much.

    A bit about me:
    - First came on the idea of chastity back in the days of Tollyboy (not that I owned one!)
    - Got a PA in the early 90's, unrelated to chastity. Has turned out to be handy.
    - I'm quite kinky, especially fascinated by power exchange. I'd say 70% sub 30% dom.
    - Married 20+ years, wife is dominant, but vanilla. Still working on that.
    - I'm not ordinarily submissive or deferential towards women, except...
    - What gets me inexplicably hot is the idea of a consensual non-consent arrangement where I'm deliberately manipulated into submission by a woman who loves me, but has decided that she's better off overall if I obey and serve her.
    - I promised my wife: I will in good faith accept her domination and manipulation and I will respond naturally. She's free to exploit this, and use her choice of methods to obtain whatever goals she desires. There's no specific requirement for her to meet my needs, other than as needed to keep me hooked into her program.
    - Alas, so far her entitlement and impatience is getting in the way of the good work. She wants my submission and chastity for free. See point 5 above. :) Working on that too.

    Who knows what the future holds?
     
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    MissyB Long term member

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    Welcome to our community. Glad you've come out of the shadows and I encourage you to continue to participate.
     
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    locked_top Caged tiger

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    Complicated.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Welcome and best wishes to you!
    Good luck in finding a mutually satisfying chastity play with her!
     
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