There are professional dominatrix that can help, but understand she will be telling your KH how to better control you and won't be getting you off Most don't allow a release during a session
That’s what I’m looking for I suppose but the term ‘dominatrix’ might put my wife off. I am hoping to find something more ‘vanilla-friendly’ or subtle but I don’t suppose it exists. if I don’t t find something like that, I’d say there is a gap in the market!
I have been in touch with three different mistresses and they’ve all been excellent. They all immediately understood and had ways of dealing with a nervous/ reluctant female. Two were pro-doms. They would only meet my wife on her own but both suggest we meet together for a coffee prior to a session. I find that idea very exciting! They said that me being there would spoil things because there are things that the chaste male shouldn’t get to hear about. makes sense. The third was a The London Dominatrix School. Again, they were so helpful and understood the challenges immediately based in their experience. Unlike the mistresses, they offer practical training together with a male sub - that could be either the schools own male or the student’s submissive other half (i.e. me!). They offer a program of training covering all major aspects of Femdom. I liked this approach because it would introduce my wife to things like pegging too! I find the idea of being used by my wife in this way - in front of the mistress doing the training - incredibly hot! So I’d go with the school. Not quite sure how to suggest this to the wife yet though! Here’s a link https://www.londondominatrixschool.co.uk/
I would say Chastity Mansion is the best place for overall knowledge. There is a wealth of information in these forums. Hang out in the chat rooms, start chatting with the messenger. If that fails.... I'm more than happy to charge you for answering your queries ;-) Feel free to ask anything. A