Community in San Diego

It doesn't seem to exist. There is a single femdom group with maybe two members that will even talk to submissives that are asking for key holding/sissy play. I've been deeply involved here in SD for almost 6 years now, and there is no talk of anything that isn't related to leather protocol, heavy impact play, or rope bondage at the periphery. Is there really just nobody around, or have I managed to miss something for half a decade?