greetings... My Domme KH/Wife has tasked me with finding a good leather collar with rings so She May attach a leash when She wants. Does anyone have any recommendations of good collars for Her that I may purchase? Thank you in advance.
You can get a good quality collar at JT's Stockroom. I know there's cheaper ones out there but the leather is ???? and will chaff your neck. I wear a leather collar (when told to) that locks on. That's important if your wife wants you keep it when she's away. I have a ring in the front for her attaching things to me. Leash, loops my nipple clamps through the ring etc. Just looking at myself in my collar puts me in a very submissive/slave frame of mind Your collar is a powerful tool.. Wear it with pride.
I agree with @Jail Bird ! I am never permitted to put my collar on myself. She does so, when She wants, with a little ritual talk that tells me the symbolism of my collar and how it assures Her that I am submissive to Her feminine power. It is so powerful! I feel so much more submissive and better when wearing it! I love my collar and what is means!
A leather one is best and make sure that the inside bit has got a nice soft lining in it cos if you are on a leash then a tug dont hurt then.
I totally agree @jemima ! My first leather collar was rough inside and it hurt when tugged upon. Having a soft lining is really important if the sub is going to wear it for prolonged periods.
We had this set but sold them. The collar and cuffs were very comfortable but the padding made the cuffs hard to buckle. You should be able to find the collar sold alone. https://www.ebay.com/itm/Cow-Hide-Leather-Wrist-Ankle-Thigh-Cuffs-Neck-Collar-with-Hogtie-8-Pieces-Set/183109572812?ssPageName=STRK:MEBIDX:IT&_trksid=p2057872.m2749.l2649
Nothing like standing in place while your wife buckles your collar on! Hearing the snap of the padlock assures me that it'll be on for a long time. She leaves me one finger gap between the inside of my collar and my neck. It's a little humiliating going someplace after the collar has been on all day and you can see the outline of the collar around my neck. People do look. My collar is not lined. It is worn in like a fine leather jacket! .I sweat when i clean with it on (required) and she likes to see how "moist" it is when I'm done. "A little hot under your collar today sweetie?" I blush and say yes, thank you.
Check out the Collar Shop in Portland Oregon. https://thecollarshop.com/index.php You can design your collar online and view it while you build it.
I expect my 'boys' and 'girls' to wear their collar for days on end whilst in my service. So I use polypropylened dog collars which are not spoiled if worn in the shower. They can be machine washed to clean off sweat stains, and those from foundation, etc. I often add a large cat bell, which tinkles as they work, making them deliciously self-conscious. It is also very useful if I give them 'corner time'; any fidgetting is betrayed by the bell(s). They know that will result in a salutary stroke of a tawse across their upper legs. So they stand very still, making the time pass even more slowly, so reinforcing the effect. But if you want a leather collar, I recommend you go to a good pet shop. Then ostentatciously try them on for comfort and size ... Guy
I love the thought and detail you put into your decisions. Small touches like a bell can turn ordinary collar into a more controlling device.