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    #1 oliver, Mar 15, 2013
    I was talking to a friend earlier and she made a passing comment which got my little grey cells thinking
    How important is clothing,more specifically the type of clothing worn in a Mistress/Sub relationship to create a visual dynamic.
    I would love to hear if anyone has an opinion on this and if anyone has a particular item/s that they enjoy wearing or works well to create an efffect.
     
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    #2 maid jessica 43, Mar 15, 2013
    Clothing is to me a very big part of my sissy and feeling like a sissy. I have worn nothing but panties for the last 8 years none if the yucky boy undies. I wear a night shirt it's pink with Minnie Mouse in it for sleeping and when cleaning I wear a pink shirt when possible. Some days I wear a bra or corset and maybe pantyhose.
    Clothing to me is a sign that I am a sissy and under my QUEENS total control
    I love all female clothing
     
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    #3 Lucy, Mar 15, 2013
    oliver that's a good question!
    Mistress Deborah will sometimes want me naked apart from my collar - I think that's her preferred way for me to be - but we have kids about so its not always practical until bed time BUT other times she likes me to dress in a latex suit or the maid's outfit. My general rule is whatever she wants is the right clothing!

    As for Mistress Deborah - whatever she wears I know I am in trouble - and if she dresses up I know its time to stick my head between my legs and kiss my arse goodbye!
     
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    #4 maid jessica 43, Mar 15, 2013
    When my QUEEN puts on her leather outfit I know my sissy bottom is in for a burning
     
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    #5 oliver, Mar 15, 2013
    Leather and corsets seem to be quite a stimulus
     
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    #6 Mistress Deborah, Mar 15, 2013
    All I can say is that all if you boys are SO LUCKY!!!!
     
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    #7 Brandon Letzin, Mar 16, 2013
    How come? I thought you girls wear awesome stuff too?
     
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    #8 Mistress Deborah, Mar 16, 2013
    Nooooo- I mean you are all so lucky to have such wonderful Mistresses that take such good care of you all- dressing you up and chaining you down lol!
     
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    #9 Brandon Letzin, Mar 16, 2013
    Oh, I see :). Hopefully I find a loving mistress one day as well that'll dress me up all girly.
     
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    #10 Mistress B, Mar 17, 2013
    Brandon Letzin your whole attitude offends me. you show little respect towards Females.
     
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    #11 Brandon Letzin, Mar 17, 2013
    How? There's a lot of men on here who like to dress in girly clothing. I don't see how that'd be rude in any way. Perhaps there's some confusion.
     
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    #12 2inch, Mar 17, 2013
    best to not question any mistress
     
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    #13 Brandon Letzin, Mar 17, 2013
    But I'd not like to have tension between us either. If I did do something wrong and don't realize it I'd like to know so I can fix it. I'd rather everyone here be happy than argue as well :).
     
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    #14 Mistress Deborah, Mar 17, 2013
    Brandon Letzin
    As I have read this thread I personally don't see that you have offended anyone;)
     
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    #15 MissMira, Mar 17, 2013
    Well i must say that i prefers 'adams' costume for my sub. And hes collar and dogtag. Im not in to the whole feminization thing.
     
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    #16 oliver, Mar 17, 2013
    Wow, thank you everyone who shared a constructive comment or just expressed an opinion.
    So i suppose i should share my own comment.

    My Mistress/keyholder enjoys seeing me naked so most of the time that is how i am, apart from the cage and even that is clear, i think she likes the vunerability of my nakedness, however as our Mistress/sub relationship develops and if she did expresse a desire to see me in anything else thats how it would be,you see from my point of view its about her pleasure and my desire to please her.
    There are many things i love or would love to see my Mistress/keyholder wearing but to demand or expect thiese would be wrong, when and if she does,it's becouse she has decided to and obviously feels i have either earned the the priviledge or just wants to torment the hell out of me.
    Anyway thats how i see it, and it is only my opinion and views,so forgive me if i have offended anyone.
    I know every relationship and the dynamics within that relationship may be different so i believe we need to find what works for each of us as individuals.
     
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    #17 Mistress Andrea, Mar 17, 2013
    Providing the kids are not around Oliver lol ;)
     
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    #18 2inch, Mar 17, 2013
    cool, to each there own.i thought me and miss c were all alone , as we are not into feminization either.however we are both open minded
     
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    #19 MissMira, Mar 17, 2013
    Know the feeling, thanks for u reply, but thats the good thing with d/s there its no rules, ass long both partners have fun :)
     
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    #20 Mistress B, Mar 17, 2013
    Brandon Letzin Perhaps I misread your comments, at the time I thought them a little flippant.
     
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    #21 starflyer, Mar 20, 2013
    I like it best when wifey dresses in her sexy lingerie, basques and her dom gear.
     
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    #22 LadyLocket, Mar 20, 2013
    Nothing better than a leather clad woman.
     
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    #23 latexbound, Mar 20, 2013
    Leather.... latex..... yum.....
     
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    #24 Mascara^Snake, Mar 20, 2013
    My feeling is that it engenders more power to the dom if she remains clad and the submissive naked.
     
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    #25 bondagefan65, Mar 20, 2013
    Can't argue with that Ma'am
     
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