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    #1 Goddess li, Dec 12, 2021
    Hello all.
    Myself and my husband have been into BDSM for around 15 years now. I get some new toys every Christmas for him but I'm struggling to find something new this year. We have amassed quite a collection over the years and have a lot of things already. I'm just wondering if anyone has found a new toy recently or could suggest something I may now already have?
    Many thanks in anticipation.
     
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    #2 true42, Dec 12, 2021
    A humbler would be an interesting gift. (Hoping my wife never learns of those.)

    I haven't tried any of these, but the TENS units seem popular.

    You could always get him something that he can use on you. Massage oil, lotion, ...
     
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    #3 Weeble, Dec 12, 2021
    Depends on your relationship. I'm old enough to think that time is more important than money. Maybe a gift book of things he can redeem from you, or a book of things you can redeem from him?
     
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    #4 Goddess li, Dec 12, 2021
    Hehe we already have those things . Tricky to find something new. The humber is great. I love making him wear it. It hurts the more you stand straight so I usually start with him squatting and forbid him from looking at me. Everything he sneaks a peek I make him stand up a little more
     
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    #5 Goddess li, Dec 12, 2021
    I did give him a bunch of hand written filthy 'tokens' one year which he was aloud to redeem when he liked
     
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    #6 BlokeDenied, Dec 13, 2021
    Pi shock?
     
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    #8 Thomas Gangman, Dec 13, 2021
    Pillory, spanking bench
     
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    #10 Isopropylforyou, Dec 13, 2021
    How about getting him a session at a professional dominatrix?

    Make it a surprise.

    Have him think you are going somewhere, (dinner, movie etc) and the take him there.

    You can watch from the sidelines or join in.

    If you make it a memorable experience for him it will be something he will remember forever.

    Iso
     
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    #12 Bound4life, Dec 14, 2021
    Depends on what y'all are into and what you already have.
    You could get him sexy outfits to make him wear.
    hush butt plug is fun
    latex catsuit or hoods etc
    a true slave collar that he cannot remove but looks relatively normal
    A blow up doll and tell him it is his new girlfriend and that is the only way he gets to orgasm in 2022.
    Straight jacket
    Cage to lock him in, think like a dog cage.
    metal bondage furniture like this https://www.extremerestraints.com/stockade-with-chest-pad-and-fucking-rod.html or https://www.extremerestraints.com/sex-bondage-furniture/stockades-pillories-and-cages.html

    Hope that helps but I'm guess all that you have already considered.
     
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    #13 sillymaid, Dec 14, 2021
    French maid outfit.....
     
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    #14 starflyer, Dec 14, 2021
    Ah yes some sexy lingerie for him to wear.....seeing as my clitty cock is no longer allowed inside my wife's sweet pussy, she has asked for a new dildo but she wants one with less girth and a soft bendy one which i'm struggling to find in the UK,
     
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    #15 Goddess li, Dec 14, 2021
    This is a nice idea and has crossed my mind before. We have discussed a fun idea of him being dropped off with a dominatrix whilst I meet someone else.
     
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    #16 Goddess li, Dec 14, 2021
    Straight jacket sounds jnteresting!
     
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    #18 Shimone, Dec 14, 2021
    On Christmas I am usually less for high end, but rather for low tec, but high quality. Just look around and you will find a high quality version of almost every sextoy. Handmade and made of almost every material you can think of. Might be a little late though to order something unique ;)

    That said: Why not going for something personal ? Make your own coupon books with coupons he can redeem throughout the next year. This way you could also include chastity. Why not giving him x coupons for orgasms which would be his only ones next year ? Would it not be funny when he would choose tonredeem them ?-)
     
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    #19 TheLockedMaid, Dec 15, 2021
    I always approve of that suggestion!
     
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    #20 Peaches, Dec 15, 2021
    Fucking machine. It's in my list this year.

    Strap-onme.com. We tried this one out and my wife gave it positive feed back. Three different controllable vibrators.
     
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    #21 nycha, Dec 15, 2021
    a pink Babydoll set with matching pantyhose
     
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    #22 madams-sissysub, Dec 18, 2021
    My madam wants to get the evil shell ball clamps, but there a bit expensive for what they are, looking for a cheaper version at the moment.
     
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    #23 Sissy Jewel, Dec 30, 2021
    A bit late to this but can recommend John Thomas Toys as they do a soft and firm version of each toy in some exciting sizes ;)
     
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    #24 jemima, Dec 30, 2021
    please Miss You cud buy him some lovley high heel shoes and if he dont like them You cud have them. :) i love heels i do.
     
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    #25 Isopropylforyou, Dec 30, 2021
    So..... what DID he get for Christmas???
     
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