Caging leading to other positive changes ...

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    I know it has been discussed before about sexual and relationship dynamics changing, often for the better. Did anyone experience other positive life changes or a desire to making other healthy changes outside of said? Just curious about other's journey with this. Thanks. :)
     
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    Mistress now insists that I work out a minimum of 5 days a week and more if possible. Last week was the first time I worked out 5 times in a week since I was in the Army. She has also insisted that I work out no later than 9am so that I don't procrastinate. She is also watching what I eat and recording my weight weekly.
     
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    My GF also has me work out more now that I'm caged. But more importantly and more subtly the cage changes my whole attitude and approach to others. When locked I feel very self centered because "it" is always on my mind (even after months), but we have observed that I become more sensitive and kinder to others (not just my GF). I dont think I am a "bad" person unlocked but no question I am better when locked. It kinda makes me sad...
     
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