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    #1 Holly Would, Jul 2, 2014
    I've entered into a sissy maid/ mistress relationship. I am looking for pointers and advice on how to enjoy being a dominatrix.
     
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    #2 Mistress B, Jul 2, 2014
    Rather difficult to do as you don't mention your sex, and the large question mark doesn't help.
     
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    #3 westerlywinds, Jul 2, 2014
    To be honest it's about finding your own path with your partner and exploring together like any relationship, particularly a kinky one. I'd ignore anyone else's predetermined ideas as they don't know you, your partner, and the chemistry and dynamic between you. It isn't about trying to meet anyone else's ideas of what a Domme should be, particularly as this is often coloured by fantasists.
     
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    #4 Cucked13, Jul 2, 2014
    Communication! Secret expressions! Trust!
     
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    #5 Giles_English, Jul 2, 2014
    "Selfish" is a great baseline for dominance, since you'll always know what to do. What turns you on, gets you off?
     
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    #6 Max51, Jul 2, 2014
    There are plenty of books and blogs about this but in the end, you really just need to understand the psychology involved and apply it in a way that is comfortable and pleasurable for you.
     
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    Wendygirl To offer advice and keep CM safe and welcoming

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    #7 Wendygirl, Jul 6, 2014
    Hi Holly

    With nothing in your profile very difficult for anyone to want to be your sub..
    Xx Wendy
     
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