Well I decided yesterday to self lock again. It’s been awhile. My fiancé was kinda into it a little but hasn’t said anything in a while. I’ve noticed the past 4 or 5 weeks I’ve been going into the bathroom “to go to the bathroom” but really I’ve been going in to masturbate. Usually 3 times a week. I’ve been very weak and thought jerking would relieve my stress. But yesterday when I was ready to jerk I thought about it and felt it was wrong. So I grabbed my cage and put it on. It’s been 24 hours. Last night sleepy my was hard. I actually woke up in the middle of the night feeling wettness on my leg. I think I had a mini ruined but didn’t touch. I wondering how I can tell her about being in my cage again after 6 months.
In my opinion, just be honest and open up to her. Especially if she was open to idea before. Good luck.
I don’t wish this to come across the wrong way and I also don’t know your circumstances... but you sound like me/us. But we have been together 15 years and have two young children and all the weight of life and responsibility on our shoulders. If your at the fiancé stage, and forgive me if I’m making the wrong assumptions here, but you should be able to talk about your feeling and sexual needs and sort things out? Chastity or enough sex to be happy
Thank you. We have been together for 15 year but decided to finally get married. Last time I wore this it was like 6 months ago. For a total of 12 days. The first 4 or 5 was amazing. She was very good at teasting and I was making her cum every night before bed. Then the last 6 or so days nothing. So I figured she didn’t care for the cage anymore. So one night I took it off. The whole next day she was mad at me and didn’t talk to me for the entire day. I can’t win!!
I think you know the answer! You both need a good talk about it Sounds like she enjoys it (a lot) and you, not her, took it off Personally, I’d say how very sorry I was. I’d then ask her to have the key back and also ask her very politely not to give you the key or be able to access it with out her permission Then see what happens
yes that rigt. you been a bit bad i think and it a wonder your Lady dint find out bout what happen in the bathroom cos my Mistress says She can smell when men dose that.