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    #1 Disciplined Boyfriend, May 6, 2023
    I think the worst thing on CM is the assumptions made by others as to your kinks, tendencies or whatever you want to call them.

    If you have a kink then I'm happy for you to have, enjoy, and embrace, but please do not automatically assume I have the same one .

    I'm a guy, and neither me or my mistress/wife/keyholder have any interest in CD, TV, sissification, emasculation. I do not have clit, it's anomically impossible. I don't have "sissigamns".

    So if you decide to chat with me, that's fine, but have a think about what that first sentence may be 'cause I'm fed up with the assumptions about I'm the same as you and I want to wear panties, bras, diapers.

    Guess the ladies get a lot more crap that I do.

    But I'm fine with you doing your own kink, but only if you're fine with mine/ours (Lady C)

    We get off on.... Well you might need to ask but you might know by now.

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    #2 BavarianWoman, May 6, 2023
    I try to avoid taking assumptions. I try to listen first.
     
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    #3 madams-sissysub, May 6, 2023
    Well said.
     
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    #4 LesterBallard, May 6, 2023
    I guess I am lucky that no one bothers trying to chat with me because I just don't have this problem and it's never happened to me. Good luck to you.
     
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    #5 starflyer, May 7, 2023
    I'm an open book and dont mind chats about anything, i'm a sissy, but i dont mind chat about non sissy stuff ??
     
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    #6 Contained, May 7, 2023
    Thank you for this. I cannot stand this when chatting with someone and all these terms come up before I have a chance to get a word in.
     
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    #7 Servus, May 8, 2023
    People are so different.
     
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    #8 Disciplined Boyfriend, May 8, 2023
    And that's a good thing, because everyone doing the same stuff would be so boring.

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    #9 Servus, May 8, 2023
    So right.
     
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    #10 Jay Sub, May 8, 2023
    It's presumptuous and projection. It can be annoying, but I understand where it is coming from. We are all guilty of it to some degree at times, an intelligent person trys to catch themselves doing it and put a stop to it.
     
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