I am only 40 days in my full time chastity. My wife was a bit confused of my decision but very supportive. She is the the Leader of much of our relationship of 34 years and is doing her best to transition this part. I believe we reached an important turning point in our relationship and I would like to share it with you all. I awoke early this morning with a sleep erection and went to the bathroom to pee to eleviate some discomfort. When I returned she was awake and wanted her body caressed which I obediently did. This led to her masterbating while I watched and caressed her breasts. Afterwards we talked about my chastity and I explained how her diminished sexual desire is OK and my chastity is my way of quelling my urges and place her in control of when we have sex and all orgasms. She appreciated this very much. This must have aroused her and she masturbated again while teasing my caged cock. We cuddled and talk about this for a while more and then my wife told me to release myself which I eagerly did. I was confused because she allowed me to orgasm Feb 22 and we agreed that my next orgasm would be March 22 or later. She straddled me and I was in heaven. I was doing my best to hold myself but my moans were giving away my body's need. A loving gentle " Shhhh.. calm yourself " was said from her and that was all it took to quell my need. She masterbated again while riding me. When she was satisfied she gave me a kiss and layed beside me. While caressing me she said I pleased her very well. Then instructed me to cage myself as soon as I went flaccid. If I behave during the next few weeks maybe I can have an orgasm. I was bewildered on how a simple oral command could have such a physical and mental affect on me to stop my need to orgasm. I did as she instructed and await for my turn. I love my wife.
Great stuff. Looks like it's going to plan. Since we started chastity, it has actually increased my wife's sex drive.
I am hopeful for the same result. If not just the feeling of empowerment rather than disappointment of herself sexually. Mother nature can be a bitch when it comes to age on women. She is a very assured and empowered women every other aspect of her life.