We do this different I think. I love it and she is really into this play. J likes me to offer her to guys by giving her a back-rub/massage with her target in the room with us. I will rub and move her clothes around to expose her body to him/them and then motion him an offer of her. First is usually a touch. Then it will become more her touching them as I watch. This can take up to an hour to complete the undressing if the guy is shy or just a new friend she wants to play. The thought will get through to most guys. i Love the look in his eyes as he gets realities of what we are about to do.