a slave gurl's intro

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  1. chastity{R}
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    chastity{R} slut supreme

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    How do you answer someone when you’re asked, “Who are you?” For me, identity has been an evolving concept on my journey of self-discovery. I never felt like I fit the “woman trapped in a man’s body” archetype. I may have been born male, but I’ve learned that I have more than enough natural femininity without having to resort to hormones or sex reassignment surgery. Sure I’ve got some unsightly hairs that I’d like to permanently remove, but I can still look and - more importantly – feel like a woman without spending a lot of money in the process. I'm lucky that I just happen to have a nice figure, and the lovely Goddess Robin ("Goddess" for short) helps me out a lot with my wardrobe and make-up. As for my oversized “clitty” . . . I happen to really like that part of my anatomy and so does my Goddess. Even if I had money to burn on a boob job, I’d still leave my male genitalia alone. Goddess keeps my less-than-prestigious excuse for a "long-clitty" locked 24/7 in a chastity device, so it’s not as if I’m able to use it the way a man would anyway.

    If you’re in to labels, I guess all this means I see myself as being a “she-male” or perhaps an “androgyne” rather than a true “transsexual”. Goddess provided me with the following definition of transsexual: “a person who transitions from one sex to the other, via hormones, anti-adrogens, lives, works, and functions in the role of the "opposite" sex with the goal of sex reassignment surgery (SRS)”. That definitely excludes yours truly, but then again it’s just another label. I've found that labels are great for simple products (like light beer) but AWFUL when it comes to describing complex multi-faceted social animals like human beings. I'm not a "black-and-white" type of thinker, so I have trouble with simplistic labels that tend to group things that aren't necessarily homogeneous based on an often biased, one-dimensional criteria. Like Republicans and Democrats.

    But back to me. Labels aside, I'm a "40-something" year-old "transgendered" person. I prefer to dress and act as a woman when I'm able and I've been told I pass quite well - please see my photos in my photo album and judge for yourself. I have dark hair and hazel eyes. My measurements are 38-31-38 . . . that's a 38-inch bust, 31-inch waist, and 38-inch hips. Yes, I've really got curves! I'm a co-founder and moderator of the Chastisized T-Girls Yahoo! Group. I'm a degreed and licensed professional in my "other life" (the one that pays the bills). I'm bi-sexual. I'm involved a very intimate, long-term relationship with the lovely Goddess Robin. I am Goddess Robin's collared slave. My Goddess and I live in the same city and see each other frequently. We share a lot of common interests, including but by no means limited to "kink" in general and BDSM in particular. Locally, I have a small but steadily growing group of friends in the lifestyle who know and either accept - or at least tolerate - my "t-girl" status. What else is there? Ask me and maybe I'll tell you !
     
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    maid katrin chaste sissy maid

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    Hello chastity{R},

    a warm welcome to Mistress Watchful's chastity community. That's quite a nice and comprehensive introduction :bigsmile:

    Hugs

    maid katrin
     
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    Mistress Watchful Dont believe the hype ;oP

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    Welcome, and yes it is a lovely introduction.

    Some of the feelings you describe mirror my feelings about my pet's future... I definately have more fantasies about him being a she-male rather than a fully fledged female.

    Please make yourself at home. :smile:
     
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    Wow what an introduction! Welcome to the site, hope you enjoy it here
     
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    A very interesting intro. Sometimes I think of myself as feeling feminine and interested only in women - a Male Lesbian.
    Bobbybig
     
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    Burger_01 Chastity Geek

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    Another big hearty welcome! Thanks for the through introduction, and well done on being honest with yourself about who you want to be :)
     
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