Hi All Me and my GF have been playing around with the lifestyle since September 2017 we are both in our late 20's. We started because she found out about my porn habit and since then have been trying to break the habit with things more relationship centric lol. In the beginning she was a lot more hesitant but she is beginning to enjoy it now as well, especially the fact she gets to orgasm as many times as she wants and all she has to do is so no to me and I will not ruin it for her . Anyway I am here to hear of some other experiences and share some of mine, It is not our intention to get into cuckold or anything more extreme but we are only at the beginning of the rabbit hole now I am using a HTv3 small currently. Thanks Chastity Mansion for creating a page for everyone to share
Welcome to the Mansion @Caged1234, nice that you found your way to our little corner of the world. Hope your stay here is enjoyable and that you'll feel comfortable in telling your story here.
One tip Do what makes you both happy, not what you think goes with chastity. Truth is anything goes with chastity that you both decide
LOL at the moment it is "do whatever makes her happy". I made the mistake of saying I don't really feel in the "game" at the moment and she has been torturing me ever since. I do believe she is more committed than i gave her credit for, this good..... I think .
Very good sign. To make it work she's got to want it, which means being able to get what she wants out of it and have and use all the levers it gives her to make sure she does.
Well at this point she is getting a 20min massage every night for the next week and i am cleaning the bathrooms for her this month + once I have submitted my work on Friday i go into lockup for 3 days to see if i can get used to the HTv3 nano and sleeping. If I can't she says she doesn't really care. It was definitely a hot moment. Oh we used to work out when I could orgasm by rolling a dice now she pretty much said that's boring and will decide herself hmmmm
She is getting there, I introduced her to the book "a keyholder's handbook" the other day, which she was not too impressed about (she thought i thought she wasn't doing enough). I think it will be a while though before she is willing to share her experiences on here, however, I shudder to think what would happen if she knew I was talking for her or saying "she is getting there" that might bring something out that I don't want lol. I am beginning to have to be very careful about un-asked for suggestions .
This will go with the territory. There may well be things you don't want over time. The essence of this dynamic is you accept that it's what she wants that's paramount, and it's for you to comply. Else you are 'topping from the bottom'. Getting used to the nano HTv3 is the first case in point. If you can't sleep and she doesn't care you will just have to learn the hard way. This happens quite often. Nothing to worry about.