90 days, no milking, no unlocking: need feedback

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    Hello Esteemed Members.

    My wife/keyholder has recently decided that I am to have a "milestone" chastity period. Specifically: 90 days, no milkings (she has never done them), and NO unlocking. I am admittedly a bit scared.

    My previous best was 37 days but that allowed for occasional releases from the device for hygienic reasons and convenience. There was no cumming, but I was able to get fully erect once in a while during those 37 days.

    I humbly ask fellow members who have endured such a period (at least 90 days with ZERO unlocking or milking or release of any kind) to comment on what to expect.

    How was the experience mentally? How did it transform from early to later stages? Did you experience any erection issues later? Penile shrinkage?

    Thank you ALL for your support and interest.

    David
     
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    I think my language was a bit too rigid, forgive me please. I would like to hear from anyone with some related experience. If you had to deal with a long-term lock-up, I'd love to hear from you.

    Thanks!

    David
     
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    I would be nervous too. Good luck. I am curious to hear the replies, since my longest is several weeks.
     
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    I thought your first post was just fine. It may take a day or two to get a few good responses.
    In the meantime you may want to mention what device you'll be using. I would imagine that some hygiene suggestions may come in handy and knowing which device you're in will help.
    Maybe she could restrain you so she can clean you up, or supervise it at least.

    Good luck, Kinkish1
     
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    by command of Mistress Michelle, Her cks will try responding again at a later date. first attempt to respond was very long and the Mansion timed me out loosing all that i had written.

    153 days locked "continuously" with no prostrate milkings . . . experince.

    will write soon.

    best wishes,
     
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    My longest time for lockup was 5 1/2/ months . My Mistress did let me have some relief by milking myself . Mistress gave me a set amout of time to releive myself , if i failed i had to wait till the next time. She would say " I just wasn't horney enough" . The truth is , it's hard to cumm in a 3k but it can be done & my clitty is sore for the next few days.:kissass:
    Have fun & let us know how things a going hugs
     
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    90 days is a long time and I have only gone to 5 weeks, but generally my experience is that you eventually reach a plateau where you are in a state of constant (although not erect) arousal. It takes getting use to but after a few weeks it doesn't get much worse.

    My main issue would be hygiene. I would be very cautious about not release for cleaning. You don't say what device you are using and you don't list any devices on your profile. I would suggest some cleaning schedule to avoid any health issues.

    I have never experienced more than a week total lock down since my Wife enjoys teasing and edging me almost daily during my chastity which really adds to the ache.
     
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    Does the risk of prostate cancer increase with no release of seminal fluid over time. I heard somewhere that the prostate should be milked occasionally for this reason. I don't know how valid the point is.

    I heard of one Mistress who would have her chaste male place his penis in a bowl of ice while she milked him from behind, to be sure that the result was more healthful than it was sexual for him.
     
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    305 days was the longest I have gone with no orgasm or milkings. The first few weeks I was VERY tempted to quit what I began to think was a stupid idea. But being rather stubborn, or dumb, I continued. Eventually it was like learning any other skill; I learned how to do it and the steps to get there were forgotten. It was just another unconscious habit and the longer I continued, the less I wanted to stop. I enjoyed the rather constant feeling of being on the edge. I knew from previous attempts that as soon as I gave up, I would have a few moments of pleasure but then would come the big let-down and feeling of failure, guilt, and remorse. I was expecting to go for a full year but at the end of nine months I lost interest in the project and brought it to an end.

    Good luck with your attempt. My only encouragement is, the longer you remain locked, the easier it gets.
    Bobbybig
     
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    Thank you all so far for your comments. I especially look ahead to CKS's reply. (and appreciate Mistress Michelle's urging of that reply)

    A few of you asked what devices will be used: I am going to alternate between the cb3k and the cb6k. So strictly speaking, I will be "released" about once a week for just long enough to thoroughly clean myself and device for the next "round". There are to be no erections or sexual touching of any kind during this device swap.

    What perhaps may make this a different sort of lock-up is the lack of edging or "stretching" exercises where I am allowed to get hard and stroked and teased without cumming. Since my penis (clitty) will not be allowed to acheive its full length for 90 days, I am quite interested in what may happen to its eventual length.

    Please keep the comments coming. I need all of the support I can get!

    Thank you!

    David
     
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    There is clear urologic evidence that night time erections during REM sleep helps to maintain erectile response.

    If you are simply never allowed an erection, you can expect your erections to get softer over time. This would take some time though, more than 90 days.
     
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    Thank you BobbyBig. Your description of what happens is precisely what my keyholder wishes to happen. She wants me to disassociate an ejaculation with sexual pleasure--for her. Sex is to truly become something where she may enjoy herself freely without worry about my messy endings.

    And for the record, I am precisely 29 days into the 90. What began as a "routine" monthly lock up turned into a 90 day milestone. As such, I may be at the peak of frustration right now.

    Thanks again.

    David
     
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    thanks mudgely. i have noticed that during the two years work of monthly chastity play, i already have shrunk a bit. I was nearly 6 inches when chastity training began, and now i can only must about 4.5. Of course, this is not much of a concern as my days as a "stud" are long gone.

    david
     
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    I've read a lot about shrinkage from denying erections. Since my Wife likes to tease me frequently, I am often kept erect and on the edge for an hour or two with no climax. The result if this for me is more length and a lot more girth from the muscle work out She gives me.
     
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    we had a goal of 90 days, Keyholder removed it on day 87 so i would not reach the goal and would have to try again and again. i haven't been locked that long since as we took a short break. my Keyholder did go out of town and locked me up while She was gone.
     
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    by command of my Owner, Keyholder and online Love, Mistress Michelle

    i hope by sharing my own personal long term locked experiences they will elevate fears derived from fairytale horror stories (shrinkage, est.), enlighten with several years of dos avoiding the donts and most of all encourage all the Dominates in O/our relationships in the vast many rewards of equally agreed upon, for the Dominate (winks), of an exciting life of enforced long term chastity.

    again I must stress this is my own personal experiences and I do not claim them to be typical or common in any way. your balls may react differently, winks.

    the longest Mistress Michelle has commanded that Her cock slave cks(j) remain locked is 153 days straight with out any release, from chastity device, or successful self induced and commanded prostrate milking, approximately 5 plus months. there is NO shrinkage. there is NO lack of sensation and very much the opposite occurs. there is NO lose of ability to become erect, again very much the opposite occurs.

    the device used is a CB-2000 with small points of intrigue. I found this device works best for me, a grower, is the must economical, concealable and most importantly easiest to keep safely clean with a minimal extra but constant amount of effort that is EXTREMELY important to never slack in. totally enclosed tubes or full belts should be removed once a month if not WEEKLY to maintain superb health and hygiene to avoid the smell and decay. decay similar to how skin reacts to being in a cast from a broken arm for several months. immediate attention must be always given to raw or rash conditions and reported to your Keyholder. DONT try to be a brave or stubborn locked cock and think they will go away with time. THEY DONT! they get worse and worse making your unlocked heal time longer and longer defeating the purpose and excitement of being locked in the first place.

    the emotions the lucky long term locked sub goes through are immeasurable. the benefits for the Keyholder are equally limitless. i have experienced more emotions than I think there are words for!

    excitement
    joy
    horniness
    helplessness
    anger
    confusion
    jealousy
    lust
    desire
    love
    need to PLEASE
    focus
    obedience
    devotion
    completeness
    pain

    did I mention horniness? for me the mere fact that Mistress Michelle has complete and total control of HER property and this greatly pleases Her makes me excited! OUCH! remember I ware the small points, squirming. making for any porn site surfing or wandering eye in real life a constant reminder that . . . you ARE OWNED!. great fun, winks.

    I apologize for being long winded and rambling but I hope the happiness of my experiences help in some small way. possibly Mistress Michelle or other Dominates can begin a thread describing Their Own experiences of the many benefits resulting from locking Their males.

    best of luck, health and wishes,
     
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    Earlier QUOTE from PM: "May I ask what happened to your erectile ability and penile length after the 305 days?

    "Also, how "permanent" was the training for you? Did 305 days make a lasting impact on how you thought about orgasm?"

    Hi David -
    Sounds like she is going to want you to start using a strap-on from now on to give her all she wants and making sure you get none. That can get me excited just thinking about it.

    At the end of nine months I didn't notice any change in length, but there was definitely a dis-interest in getting erect. My mind and body became so used to not becoming aroused it took a conscious effort to look at and think about things that I had found erotic in the past, to stimulate any response.

    Even then the muscles that cause ejaculation had not been used in so long that they were almost too weak to pump. As a result very little ejaculate was released.

    I still enjoy being in a chastity device, and being denied any stimulation, much more than letting it all hang out. When I go about my daily routine I have that secret thrill that keeps me on edge. It's frustrating sometimes, but very satisfying.
    Bobbybig
     
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    BobbyBig and CKS,

    Thank you both for the carefully crafted responses. Each of you put my mind at ease about the effects of long-term chastity. I have little doubt that the "muscles" will atrophy a bit during 90 days. (much less 305) I am relieved that emotionally I will be just as strong as ever.

    Well, today ends 29 days........only two more MONTHS to go!

    I will keep folks posted. (and kudos to Mistress Michelle for nudging cks into writing.)

    David
     
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    you are VERY welcome david.

    i know many others have much more . . . . information. wish they would have contributed also. maybe soon?
     
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