So the other night when I was allowed some worship time of my Wife @n2toys She brought up the movie 9-1/2 weeks in passing (don't recall why) and then chuckled about how that would make a great denial goal! This was both exciting and scary to hear Her say - I asked if she was serious and She said She was just kidding. The following day rec'd a text - 'So, 9-1/2 weeks?!' I asked if it was my choice - 'Nope' Asked if this was Her final decision or still up in the air - 'Just teasing. Will go 6-1/2 weeks and see how we do' I then gave full disclosure that Her initial text of 9-1/2 weeks had an 'immediate' reaction and caused me to spurt out a shot of built-up cum (at work and thank god I was wearing a male depends liner for fear of leaking) - my Wife was happy to hear Her text caused a spurt. Later that night I confessed that the idea of being pushed that far was both very exciting and scary... (longest has been either 5-1/2 or 6-1/2 weeks). She then let me know that it may be 9-1/2 weeks... It's funny how the whole concept of chastity and denial has impacted our dynamic; all in a very good way in both our opinions. I started as a lurker here and afraid to even bring up. Once we started I had it 'my mind' of how it 'should be' - I wanted a known release date so I can both know and anticipate; my Wife's preference was to not inform me and keep me always guessing - I soon realized She was correct! I now never know what is in store for me - unlocked for play or not, edged & denied, edged & ruined, milked, or allowed a full orgasm. Like many here, I intensely crave worshiping My Wife and this desire just gets more and more intense the longer I'm denied - the other night She was actually laughing a few times at how insane I was with lust while worshiping with my mouth and tongue; the fat that she was amused by how my frustration was impacting me was a huge turn on!!
If you do it gradually you will see how much better you can take the longer denial periods. I do not even get horny anymore until a month has passed, when before I used to have a few orgasms a day. Last denial period for me was 70 days. Next orgasm may or may not be at the end of October, more than 3 months away. I start to get antsy after 2 months but lately I do not even think about orgasms or want one. I enjoy being denied and trying to get hard simply by a kiss. Edging is exquisite torture and I love it. Chastity works best if you want to go however long it is. I think most of us know that we can masturbate in our cages. Yet I do not do that because I have promised my wife not to. We approach chastity as a joint effort.