Sorry... another Night time issue... Must admit., night times are still not comfortable after 2 weeks locked. My own Mr Happy is a grower, and grow he does, I do have a short metal 3 ring style cage which basically lifts up with my night time erection and pulls my balls up with it... no pain at all, just a little disconcerting since everything is where it shouldn’t be!! The bottom half of my erection is on show to the world while the top half is encased in my metal cage with my balls pulled up half way up my erection!! :-( No idea what I should do. I have a 45mm base ring which is as small as I could do to ensure everything would go through it. I never had this problem when wearing the curve - which was way too big and cumbersome and a nightmare to drive in or sit anywhere in! Anyone else have this or experienced this?? Thanks
I used to get that, but that was back in the day when I had a longer device and I wore it for less than a month at a time! Three rings - that does sound like your cage is too long. If the erection can start, then it will grow. If the cage is so short that an erection doesn't even start, then it won't. With longer lockups, your mind/body also gets used to the fact that you can't have an erection, and chastity becomes normal rather than novel for you, so nocturnal erections become a rarity.
I've gone with the super short metal type. It's basically just a small cup, attached to the base ring. I'm a grower too, and use the 50mm ring, or I get bruising and chafing on the shaft area. Trapped ball cages will always pull down to a large degree. The downside to mine is that I have to take the cage bit off to pee. I could go with a design that uses bars for night time, but I like that nothing shows. The short style works for me. I had one with rings, and they always cut the skin when I grew in it at night. The full bladder will generally always try and start something. Too tight a base ring will act like a cock ring, and keep it up when you don't want!
I’m having similar issues. My ring CANT get any smaller and my cage is literally my third attempt, and I had to go custom. I’m very thick and still have excess skin building out the back and between the rings. Not so much that it is uncomfortable but my point is, I can’t make it any smaller. I wake up with the exact same situation and it is uncomfortable and I lose a lot of sleep as it doesn’t go away easily. I feel your frustration and I’m hoping for some varied and informative answers to your thread as well as my comment lol
Some people find that a chain around the waist to hold the cage closer to the body helps prevent those night time erections from getting so uncomfortable. I’ve never tried it myself, but you should be able to find some conversation threads about how it works.
Ok... it is indeed more than a bit frustrating...It was actually suggested that the cage I am using is still slightly too long for my rather small (when flaccid at least!!) member! Thus, just to see if the comments from others regarding the night time problem are true - and I WILL confirm this!!! - I have gone and ordered pretty much as small as possible - https://www.erotik-sjop.com/kuisheidskooi/metalen-peniskooi-1-ring-penislock-small-45mm/i/51403/ Due this week, we shall see!!
That would indeed solve it. However at present I really am not the piercings type... if I don’t sleep for the next 365 days, I will naturally have to reconsider that option! Thanks for the advice!
Let me know how it works. I need to resolve this myself. But as I said I can’t rally go smaller so I’m still at a loss.
I have essentially the same cage, but with the closed cap design. Smallish holes in the end of it. My big problem was that I am/was 7.5" and 5.5 around when hard, so I was getting a lot of loose skin bunched up around the post area, which can get pinched by the post small movements, or just by clothing when sitting, and grabbing the shaft skin. What I came up with, is to wear mine differently, although I don't know if it will work with the more open bars type. What I do is this. Put the ring on fully. Pull the shaft skin up, while stuffing the head of the penis down on itself. Close the skin up, like a foreskin, and place that in the cage. Lock it up like normal. Now you've got the shaft of the penis pushed up into the body. The head sitting partly in the small cage, and behind a bunch of shaft skin. The shaft skin is not as sensitive as the head of the penis, so there is less irritation from protruding skin rubbing. For me, it shows less. Has way less pinching and irritation, and a cleaner look, with the bunched skin now in the cap, and not piled up around the base ring. The main downside I find is that I have to unlock to pee. For me, it's a routine, and I don't have the temptation to cheat. The plus side is that I can sleep on my stomach, and through the night. I can also wear fairly tight jeans in the day, and not show any extra bulge in the crotch.
Having to unlock every time I need to pee would be a no go for me... 1. I know my luck. I would end up dropping the cage into the loo, or worse, in a public loo, I would drop it and it would roll under the cubicle door and I would have to retrieve it or have some old cleaner wait for me wondering what the hell it was - or my boss would be there waiting, wondering the same! 2. For me, that is simply too much hassle. 3. My wife (and me) would not want such a set up, thus, I need to be able to pee while wearing it. But it will be here in a couple of days so we shall see what happens! Thanks
My keyholder loves when we are out and I have to use the bathroom. She knows it's like doing bomb disposal level difficulty! I do wonder about having one base ring, and a bar type cage for sleeping, and easy peeing. I have another cage, but for some reason, I keep having chafing, and metal reactions with it. I can't seem to wear it longer term. For now, I put up with the fuss of taking the cap off and on, for the sake of having the style we like, and the stealth aspect under jeans.
I have the same issue with my CB knock off. Still get hard, and the bottom of my erection stretches my balls and peeks out . I've gotten used to the pressure and I get no arousal from rubbing, so it's a non issue. Nocturnals seem out of our control. I did try a bulky silicone cage that was by far the most comfortable I've ever tried; however , the forgiving softness of the silicone is its downfall. I woke up after wearing it to find it completely in place and locked in the leg of my sweatpants (my nocturnal erection had apparently squeezed it right off! )
I made a makeshift harness to hold the cage close to my body, you will still get an erection it will just be behind the base ring so it won’t pull on your balls.
I actually prefer my husband to experience pain during his nightly erections. It has become easier for him but when I awake to his moaning, I get really turned on. When he wakes my I usually make him eat me to orgasm.
try and not drink after early evening and pee before you go to bed. Simple but found it worked for me. I don't drink anything after about 6:30pm