Sorry, I can’t resist a godfather reference when I get an opportunity to use one. This is kind of morbid for those with partners but bare with me. Madambelle is having some issues, and it seems to be relationship issues and not just chastity. Which brings me to my question...if things ended Would you drop your partner, but still keep chastity and demand it’s use in your future relationships? I am not sure someone used to a guy in one could go back, but then again, if it wasn’t your idea in the first place maybe getting an alpha is right up your alley. I could see both views. I think if I died, she would bring it up to her future partner.
Perhaps a different way of asking the same question is: which is more important to you, your partner or your chastity device?
I would have to say my partner is more important but submission is so integral to my identity that it would be hard to give up and I find chastity a key element of my submission. In other words...it's complicated.
Chastity seems so right to me that I would bring it up to another partner (god forbid that ever need to happen). I realize for me that I am a submissive male and chastity is something that makes me feel right. I wouldn't demand it and it wouldn't be a must in the relationship but I do think I would be more selective with the type of woman I'd be looking for based on what I now know about myself.
Actually that wouldn’t be at all how I meant it. I meant now that you have learned about and embraced chastity, if your relationship happened to end, would you bring it up or demand chastity in your next relationship. Many kh’s may think “thank god that is over” others I imagine may think “it didn’t work out with him...but locking up his junk was a pretty good idea! My next bf will need to wear one”