My anxiety is bad.

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    So after 4 days in chasity I'm new btw last night kh used anal beads in my ass and stroked my cock but no cumming yet the following morning I've got bad muscle ache and feeling sick with anixety and one have this happen to them.
     
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    I would advise to take it off if you are having bad side affects.

    It can take time for your body to adjust.

    Hope you feel better soon
     
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    Thanks you
     
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    I do enjoy using anal beads, but I do find it extremely uncomfortable being stimulated with the cage on. But that is half the fun .

    I did have online fun with a lady she would make me play with my ass for about an hour and send me porn to watch. I had to send pictures of me struggle in the cage which she liked. It was painful but that is part of the game "no pain no gain"

    She then might allow me to take it off or I had to take a cold shower.
     
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    Sounds very erotic
     
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    Have you had experience with aneros helix
     
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    Yep they were very good times

    If I was allowed to release I had to do it on one of the "dirty" anal toys then suck on them. Then send a before and after pictures.

    She then told me to clean up and do some yoga and meditation which was kind of virtual after care.
     
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    I am afraid not but might order that on my next love honey order.

    I want to also get a dildo to practice deep throat
     
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    I agree, maybe take a break.
     
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    I really miss being caged and occasionally put it on for a short while. It is a shame when our bodies don't react as we would wish but if the cage is causing problems such as my UTI despite daily cleaning then it makes sense to stop using the cage.
     
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    I am not sure it was a UTI I am feeling much better now kh finally let me cum.
     
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    This can be normal. You may go through 1-2 days of misery before you lock into sub space. It sucks, but the other side of the misery can be well worth it.

    I find it's a lot more manageable for me (and may even shorten it a bit) if I spend time rubbing her feet, doing lots of extra chores, doing other things that I know she'll appreciate, and writing her loving notes. I'm sure there are faster ways through it, but they'd probably involve things that neither one of us care for ...

    Anyhow, good luck, and learn to listen to you body, and communicate well with your KH. It's on you.
     
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    It could have been a literal case of blue balls. I have found that if my bride gets me overly worked up for a prolonged period after I’ve been locked for a few days without release that the next day I will have a thud like ache in my balls and abdomen. If I do not get aroused for a couple of days it goes away.

    Also, if you get all worked up and have noticeable pre-cum and you do not for a while after that fluid can become gelatinous and cause weird sensation down there as well.
     
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    Certainly worth trying again. maybe start with shorter lockups and go from there.
     
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    Yeah I'm definitely trying again I've had a long break and cum since after 5 days of lock up blew my mind ahhh it felt good I will slowly work upto longer again I think Getting a comfortable device certainly will help
     
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