After a couple of days or more in chastity, do you find that the firmness of your erection is harder or softer than normal? I've heard some people claim the former, and some the latter. For me, I often find it takes longer to get an erection after. I think my body goes into 'power down mode' while locked and needs time to wake up. Also, often if I've been psychologically aroused while locked, not having it on can feel a bit dull. Experiences with this?
I recently went 101 days straight and was only out of the cage once for about 8 hours (with no erection during that time). Neither I nor my wife noticed any difference in size or firmness. I’m sure everyone is different but that’s my personal experience.
I'm really having difficulty getting a firm erection after being freed. I Have promised my KH that I won't masturbate but I have this overwhelming need to ejaculate but for some reason I can't. I actually need to be bound again.
I’m the same as you OP, if I am allowed out then my first few erections are not as hard as they were, it’s takes a bit of time for my body to catch up and realise it’s not restricted any more.
Locked for 14 years and no PIV or anyplace, for over 35 years. No orgasms this year but used to get 3-4 a year by masturbation with permission. I agreed to no more orgasms because my orgasms are not worth it. They take long to occur and are over in two seconds. I hardly ejaculate anything and then a few minutes later drip out the rest. So not worth having one and then going through the period of 10 days when your hormones are urging you to ejaculate again and again. Most men are unaware that they secret hormones after the ejaculate that urges them to have sex again. This builds up over a 10 or so day period and why I hate to start all over again.
Interesting Vinny. That might also explain why after a while in chastity, it takes time to get back into having a normal erection.
First day or so it's not as hard. The first orgasm is usually a letdown as well. But quickly back to normal.
my wife likes to keep me flaccid, the longer im in chastity the less i get erections, thats the way she likes it.....me, i like an erection !
A d I get a different erection. When locked up longer periods. Another angle and a bit softer. The hardness seems to be more in the intracorporal part of the penis and less in the part visible. According to my lady, no further erections or penis at all are needed for me, so it isnt an issue if it is bent, soft or limp. It is out of business and at maximum used for milking.
I had a six week stretch (started locktober early this year, mid September ) Last night was free for some recuperation time… I got a relatively firm erection right away which luckily sub seeded after a hour or so.,This morning, woke up with the hardest morning wood in years! So for me, apparently mine is much firmer after a longer lockup time. side-note: Back in the cage since this morning to continue NNN
Well while in chastity I feel like it's rock hard, but I can see it is trying to but is not. I have trouble getting hard after 2 weeks. After a month I will be grateful for the release, but it is different I want to get hard but I am a beta, so sucked cocks or pussy makes me hard
I find it feels hard, when released but in reality it takes longer for me to get truly hard. The longer in chastity the more stimulation required, it's like after a week my dick is trained that it cannot get hard, and it takes time to realise that it is allowed too. After a month...
Same as you, OP. I have been out for a couple of weeks and getting a firm one just doesn’t happen the same way. We’ve been doing this for 12 years off and on. Maybe it is just the body getting older or chastity rewiring my brain, but there is a definite difference. For me, it could just be a rewire - I prefer to cum caged these days.