My wife is strong willed and stubborn. She wants to rule the marriage. I used to have big fights with her The marriage was not stable. I read about FLR and the idea excited me. I asked for a formal FLR. She accepted. She will get angry if I disobey her so now I say “Yes Dear” when she asks me to do something. I don’t argue with her. If I do, she will be angry with me for days. She now controls the finances. I do all the housework. She decides if I ever get sex. She has not wanted sex for a long time. She is not into BDSM except for chastity (long term orgasm denial). I am horny all the time and this motivates me to serve her. I am free to be nude and cross dress at home. I now feel content to be her obedient husband. She bosses me around daily. Anyone have a similar marriage?
Just a humble opinion from a developing worshipper. Please separate fantasy from real life, open your eyes and get communication theapy. ----- My wife is strong willed and stubborn. She wants to rule the marriage. - Definitely the same. And OK with me. I used to have big fights with her The marriage was not stable. - Because one person dominates. Otherwise it is a fight. Unless it is really important, just cede. I read about FLR and the idea excited me. I asked for a formal FLR. She accepted. - What did you read? What did you propose? Most of that FLR bullshit is internet fantasy porn. She will get angry if I disobey her so now I say “Yes Dear” when she asks me to do something. - That´s OK. I don’t argue with her. If I do, she will be angry with me for days. - Does she have an outlet fot her anger? Spanking? Punishments? Butt-fucking? Find some and use them. She now controls the finances. - Basically OK, but you need transparency and veto. I do all the housework. - No. "All" is too much for her or you. Need to talk. She decides if I ever get sex. - That´s the point.. She has not wanted sex for a long time. Wait. She doesn´t want you to lick her pussy? If so, she is getting it elsewhere. LEAVE HER. NOW. She is not into BDSM except for chastity (long term orgasm denial). - That´s nice. I am horny all the time and this motivates me to serve her. - That is what chastity is all about. I am free to be nude and cross dress at home. - Whatever. You could do that without her. I now feel content to be her obedient husband. - That is perfect. She bosses me around daily. - Little and unnecessary things? No. Communicate. Anyone have a similar marriage? - Me, kinda. Difference is is I take it seriously and establish communication, protocols and limits.
I read about FLR and the idea excited me. I asked for a formal FLR. She accepted. - What did you read? What did you propose? Most of that FLR bullshit is internet fantasy porn. What I read was not porn. Quite the opposite. The comments on this website are mostly focused on sex and kink in case you didn't notice She now controls the finances. - Basically OK, but you need transparency and veto. No, she controls the finances. That's our decision I do all the housework. - No. "All" is too much for her or you. Need to talk. No, we don't need to talk. I enjoy doing all the housework She has not wanted sex for a long time. Wait. She doesn´t want you to lick her pussy? If so, she is getting it elsewhere. LEAVE HER. NOW. What a Bullshit thing to say for someone who does not know my wife. She is in her late 50's and has no desire for sex anymore. Quite common for women that age. Who are you to tell me to Leave her now? Anyone have a similar marriage? - Me, kinda. Difference is is I take it seriously and establish communication, protocols and limits.[/Q We talk just fine. How would you know? ----- My wife is strong willed and stubborn. She wants to rule the marriage. - Definitely the same. And OK with me. I used to have big fights with her The marriage was not stable. - Because one person dominates. Otherwise it is a fight. Unless it is really important, just cede. I read about FLR and the idea excited me. I asked for a formal FLR. She accepted. - What did you read? What did you propose? Most of that FLR bullshit is internet fantasy porn. She will get angry if I disobey her so now I say “Yes Dear” when she asks me to do something. - That´s OK. I don’t argue with her. If I do, she will be angry with me for days. - Does she have an outlet fot her anger? Spanking? Punishments? Butt-fucking? Find some and use them. She now controls the finances. - Basically OK, but you need transparency and veto. I do all the housework. - No. "All" is too much for her or you. Need to talk. She decides if I ever get sex. - That´s the point.. She has not wanted sex for a long time. Wait. She doesn´t want you to lick her pussy? If so, she is getting it elsewhere. LEAVE HER. NOW. She is not into BDSM except for chastity (long term orgasm denial). - That´s nice. I am horny all the time and this motivates me to serve her. - That is what chastity is all about. I am free to be nude and cross dress at home. - Whatever. You could do that without her. I now feel content to be her obedient husband. - That is perfect. She bosses me around daily. - Little and unnecessary things? No. Communicate. Anyone have a similar marriage? - Me, kinda. Difference is is I take it seriously and establish communication, protocols and limits.[/QUOTE]
I’ve been living in a FLR since late 2019, and female led marriage since October of 2020. While the relationship is built on mutual love and respect, she is the leader. She makes the decisions and she has instituted a long list of rules. She punishes me when I disobey. I’m kept in chastity 24/7, orgasms and emissions are forbidden. The only release I’m allowed is a wet dream. On occasion she may caress my balls or stimulate me through the cage. On very rare occasions she may let me out for a tease and denial session. I’ve learned to get my sexual satisfaction and fulfillment from her pleasure and orgasms. I’m rarely allowed pussy. When she wants to be fucked, I wear a strap on. I’m grateful for denial, because it’s given me strength and self control to act and behave as I should. I am disciplined daily and punished anytime I sin. She’s more of a sensual Domme. She’s loving and caring, and very kind, but when she tells me to do something, she expects it to be done. I love submitting to her, because I know she is wise and intelligent and makes better decisions than I do. I’ve become a better man under her leadership and authority. We are both very satisfied with our dynamic.