Does anyone try and circumvent the rules of chastity? I’ve been increasingly introducing my wife to chastity and we’ve dabbled for 6 months on and off, led by me sometimes and her sometimes. She’s decided it starts “properly” after I complete a long distance open water swim next weekend. Incidentally what convinced her was reading this series which I found in another post on this forum https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/index.html So back to my question, do you ‘Long termers’ ever have a crisis of faith in chastity and try to cheat the system? Obviously, you can’t “cheat” with another partner, but you could still try and ‘cheat’ with yourself, given time and initiative. Thanks
From my reading here, it seems pretty evenly divided between those who would never break the rules even if they could get away with it, and those who would jump at the chance to do so...
I try to be compliant, and for several months at a time I can succeed, but then I get weak for a while and secretly play and give myself ruined orgasms (at least I stop at that), through my cage (I'm locked 24x7 and don't have the key, but I've learned pretty good tricks for pleasuring myself with it on). I don't view it as a game -- it's cheating (though on myself -- my KH does this because I want to and does not feel seriously betrayed if I cheat, she just punishes me because she knows I want to be disciplined).