Over the weekend we had some fun. We were trying our new prostate massager plug while trying to give Her an orgasm. She often orgasms from me humping Her and grinding my cage against Her. Basically simulated sex without penetration. While humping away, I felt myself building to a release and I did. This has never happened before but I was nearly five weeks without any kind of release. It was more than a prostate milking but less than the feeling of a full orgasm. She asked what happened and I said I think it was a ruined orgasm. If so, she was okay with it. She did ask if my cage moves too much and if I was able to grind to a full orgasm. I said I didn't think that was what happened. If so, She wants a different cage that doesn't allow that. So, what do you think happened? Have you ever been able to fully orgasm from rubbing your cage around?
When my cage was incorrectly fitted and moved around a lot… yeah. Hard to say what it was though, considering you also had a prostate massage in too, had been denied and also had her stimulating you. Could be a prostate orgasm. Could be premature ejaculation. Could be her movements on the cage. Could be a combo of all three… Either way. You failed at chastity
At least you have found a way to cheat without removing the cage, so I'd suggest you play it down so whenever she is out of the house you can enjoy these orgasms in peace and without judgement or repercussions.
Well you could get a tighter, more restrictive cage. That will help. A piercing would be good. Yanking away on a piece of metal in your penis may restrict some pleasure. Avoid prostate play. Think everyone understands this can result in orgasm. Then there’s only bouts of premature ejaculation or untimely emissions. If you don’t want these to happen you’ll probably just have to think about your grandma or something when your wife is naked in front of you. Keep the mental stimulation to a minimum. Otherwise, just enjoy the ride.
No, that wasn't a full orgasm... It was a caged orgasm, which is neither full nor ruined. It's kind of in between. Ask her if she's down for "experimenting" with those to see if they make both your experiences more fun or not. I had 2 of them myself in recent weeks and I found they can be very frustrating and leave me wanting in the end. Your experience with them may be different, perhaps even enjoyable, so do considering exploring it.
This is my way of thinking to, that it was a combination of all three, but i wouldn’t say you failed at chastity ether.
No, I was joking at the time. I think it’s so easy at times on here to forget that this lifestyle doesn’t come with rules. There are no right or wrong answers… it doesn’t really matter if he had a full orgasm, more that he and his other half both enjoyed the situation.