I've really just started my chastity journey a few weeks ago. I'm currently wearing a Birdlocked Mini and it's been on for four days. My longest period without release is 14 days. Based on my reading, that's nothing compared to what some have endured, but as a constant masturbator since puberty, it was a big deal for me. I don't think I've ever gone two days, let alone 14. (I was only locked up for the last five - good thing the chastity device arrived or I would not have made it!) I have notice a few things since starting this journey: I am suddenly painfully aware of the number of nocturnal erections I have. Berries are tender when they are full of juice, so sit down slowly! So many women are really, really beautiful creatures (and they are all flirting with me now, aren't they?) Everyone is now staring at my crotch, I'm certain of it. I do not know where this journey will take me, and despite being a bit uncomfortable in my cage, I'm enjoying it very much!
I am fortunate to have a keyholder to guide me through this experience. Though she is at a distance, she's been incredibly kind and supportive in helping make this transition. I guess one other lesson learned would be that an incredible bond forms quickly with an attentive keyholder.
Hello and welcome to the mansion. I hope you will feel at home quickly. Regarding your observations: Yes be careful when sitting down. Spread your legs a little. I found that when going to the restroom I have to pull the trousers all the way down to the ankles so that I can sit down without squeezing the sensible parts.
Feeling frustrated tonight. I had to remove the chastity device due to too tight a fit. Not good when the wobbly bits aren't getting enough blood. I really need to upgrade to a decent cage. I've ordered sizing rings from Mature Metal and know I will eventually have a Jail Bird. The challenge is about what to do between now and then. I have a Birdlocked Mini 40. It's a bit too tight and restricts blood flow. I purchased a Birdlocked Mini 45, and that just slips off. It's really frustrating, and not the right kind! I know I need the assistance of a chastity device to remain chaste, but I need a little recovery time. And the lead time for a decent cage is months. Just feeling a little down, I guess. Truth is, I miss wearing the cage. I like knowing that it's not easy for me to masturbate.
if you live in the US, malechastitynow.com has some great devices. I think you can get a device in as little as 5 days from them, they are very fast. I have the contendor from them and its a great device, highly recommend it.
The cb6000 fits pretty much all sizes and could tide you over till the JB comes. But it'd only be a stopgap. You'll need to upgrade to metal to get the full experience.
I've got some edema that needs to clear up before I do anything. And now that I'm out of my device, I feel everything. And I lack the willpower to deal with it. This all has me feeling pretty low.
Oh dear,please dont feel that way! THink of it as just a little sacrifice before a long long session of chastity! Try to get your mind off of it by paying attention to more important things,like reading or a hobby, or simply just cleaning the house And as for the nocturnal erections,i know exactly what you mean,ive been locked for a week now, and i still feel the pain at times! Ive realised that sleeping on your back and placing a pillow between and under your crotch is actually really helpful! Cheer up -jjsissy xoxo
My little one tried to get big the other night. It was kinda funny to see how it pushed against the cage and pulled the balls as far as it could but didn't get farther than halfway to fully erect. I presented it to my dear Lady and we both were amused while the little one got smaller until it was back to the size it is supposed to have.
Pawds, I also really like my device from Male Chastity Now (link). Great service, great quality, fast and less expensive. I'd also like to put a bid in for male-essentials (link) cock ring sets. They sell individual and sets of silicone, rubber, steel, brass in the widest array of sizes I've seen. Great for sizing.
The swelling has gone down quite a bit, but not the whole way. I'll be out of chastity until I'm fully healed. I'm not used to my pants rubbing against my penis, so I'm constantly getting aroused, which leads to frequent masturbation. I'm not happy about this, as it leaves me feeling lethargic and depressed, but in the moment, it just feels so good. I wish I had a much better answer, but I don't. I guess this is how it will be until I'm fully recovered. I do have my sizing rings, and I won't make any purchases until I've returned to my normal state. I don't want to waste any more money, and I want to do everything I can to make sure my next device fits appropriately and doesn't cause problems. Until then, I'll just have to live vicariously through all of you.