So, having PIV this morning and she peaked. As she did I felt my own coming, so I pulled out and dumped in the condom. Does that count as ruined?
Old, like what was coming out was kinda forced/stuck. Like a McDonald's milkshake, tastes good, but feels like a vein will burst in your head due to sucking so hard
Sounds like it might have been. As I understand it, a ruined orgasm is still an orgasm, as it produces ejaculate, but it plateaus before the peak which one would describe as a "full blown" orgasm. A comparison would be to masturbate up to that point where you've crossed the point of no return and then completely let go, avoiding those extra strokes that really takes you over the top. There are other forms where the tip is capped with a thumb.
I've given myself a few ruined orgasms over the years out of curiosity and from my personal experience I'd say if you have to ask, the answer is probably no. If a normal orgasm is an explosion, a ruined orgasm is a fire cracker. If you're somewhere between those two, then your orgasm was somewhere between normal and ruined.
Ruined O means that you eject some but stop before your body produces the burst of prolactin that lowers your libido and leaves you sated. It’s the prolactin surge that drops us out of sub space.