I may be locked up for a year so what is it like?

I will skip the backstory and just say that tonight before we start sex, my wife is going to tell me how long I am to remain in chastity without a full orgasm after driving me crazy by changing the dates all the time. She always says that she never wants me to orgasm again, as she likes the way I am getting when I do not. I sort of agreed to any term of chastity up to a year but only if she gave me ruined orgasms once every 4-6 weeks to clear out my tubes and make sure my plumbing works. She is never going to milk my prostate and neither am I so ruined orgasms are the only way for us. I do not think she will make me go a year as she usually likes me to have an orgasm with her once month but she read somewhere online from a book author that 1 year is a good period to break the husband and put him in the right frame of mind. So I am unsure what she may say and nervous about it.

My question is how is long term chastity? Do you feel horny all the time or does it fade and you just forget about it? What can I expect?

 

My wife is sick and told me no sex tonight but she wants me to go for a year. If I ask for an orgasm she said that she will paddle my butt so hard that I will forget about how horny I am. Her paddlings do make me cry from the pain so I will avoid asking. This is going to be interesting. I am still getting used to wearing my CD out in public.

@Mascara^Snake. What is a good way to go about it? My wife is getting more and more dominant but it has taken her almost a year. I still struggle to step aside completely and let her have total control. She has taken a back seat to me for a,long time and I want her to feel how good it is to be the Kjng,

 

i will try to convince her to but never succeeded in the past.

 

You are certainly right about the controlling part but not my motives for asking. Like when I quit smoking, it was helpful to know what I would go through and how to get past it. My support group was very helpful in that regard. I just agreed to try and can bail but not without a penalty. The problem is that my wife is not the type to go online to read about sex. Heck, I have to email her anything concerning chastity. I did to present her with ideas and options but she picks the ones she likes, not me. I do not have ant to wear panties and yet I am.

 

I guess that I have no choice. I again refer to the quit smoking thing. While it is different for every person, there are tips and tricks to break the habit that apply to most. I am trying to break the orgasms habit. )

 

Since I believe in truth in advertising and no fantasy posts, I want to update my situation. Not been a good week. We moved here to help my disabled sister-in-law take care of our twin nieces. One has developed Stage 4 brain cancer and will be undergoing a rigorous amount of radiation and chemo for the next two months. So we will be helping out with that.

Both my mother and father were placed in nursing homes and are basically at the end of their long lives. Not too sad as they are in bad shape, so their quality of life is not very good. My wife suddenly got sick, nothing serious on its own but we need to be careful as it can affect some other problems she has. I have developed 3 different kinds of skin issues related to using my CB6000s. Apparently using a lot of lube in a tropical climate provides a nice warm moist breeding ground for all sorts of things. The friction of the CB rubbing against my skin has also caused skin problems.

Just wanted to update everyone and let you know that I will not be posting here for an indefinite amount of time. It has been almost a year of chastity play for us and we enjoyed it but for now it is coming to an end. We both would like to pick it up sometime in the future but given the circumstances it will have to be on the honor system or very short term wearing of my CB6000s. That is it. Old age sucks and thanks for all the advice and support.