Got My Reverse PA Today! Can Call it Apadravya Now!!!

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    #1 I LOVE my Choice!, Jan 28, 2014
    Hi all!

    I got my reverse PA today to go with my existing PA!

    When you put the two together I guess that equals an Apadravya!!!

    Sarah, the piercer, was amazingly thorough and professional. I was pierced and stretched to 10g straight away. A curved barbell is in with 6mm beads on each end.

    Gotta say..... the reverse PA makes it's regular brother seem like a walk in the park on a nice, balmy summer's day with an icecream and fairyfloss and everything that's nice in the world!!!!

    'Ouch' was mentioned.....

    But we 'pushed' through (hahaha) and the deed is done!!!

    Bring on the healing and future stretching!!!!

    And, of course, the experimentation to see what works best for my wife!!!!!

    Only down side is I have to be out of my cage for a wee (hahaha) while!!!!

    With the absolute kindest regards

    J.
     

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    #2 KeySafe, Jan 28, 2014
    My hats off to you. Talk about being able to use a piercing to secure chastity. WOW! Seeing what you were willing to go through, makes a regular PA seem like nothing. I am impressed.
     
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    #3 Sunny, Jan 28, 2014
    Would like to see photos. Might inspire me!!
     
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    #4 thundar, Jan 28, 2014
    Really hurt? Someone should have told you! Well it done now........make the best of it. Ampallang next?
     
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    #5 I LOVE my Choice!, Jan 28, 2014
    Thank you Mr Keysafe!!!!

    I know a few moments of pain will be amply rewarded with a remaining lifetime of pleasure for my wife!!! Plus we have new options for device security now too as you say!!!!


    What is it they say..? No pain, no gain...?? Or: You've got to be in it to win it...???!!!

    I'll keep you posted as to how the new piercing works out! Just let JD get used to his PA before you get him to go reverse/apy!!!!!

    With many thanks and the absolute kindest regards

    J.
     
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    #6 Wendygirl, Jan 28, 2014
    Ohhh really lovely
    Just be aware never to leave the piercing open with nothing in it they close up really quickly.
    Xx wendy
     
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    #7 KeySafe, Jan 28, 2014
    Not sure where you came by this opinion, Wendygirl, but at least in the case of my PA, you are incorrect. There have been times when I left the piercing "open" for over a year, and was still able to put it back into service by just inserting the jewelry. Now of course this is well after the healing process.
     
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    #8 MistressBitch, Jan 28, 2014

    well after the healing process is ok, soon after piercing, you dont want to leave it out. My man did an overnight within the first 2 months and it was a sod to put back in.
     
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    #9 Wendygirl, Jan 28, 2014
    Got the two piercings mixed up.
    After a pa is healed and stretched to say 4 mm yes you can leave it out for ages.
    Its the reverse pa or any other piercing through the head of a willy.
    The nature of the head makes it contract really quickly so never leave the piercing with nothing in it.
    Xx wendy
     
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    #10 Hannibal, Jan 29, 2014
    I lost my Apadravya for years after a drunken attempt at sex. Funny the thing just wouldn't fit. Anyways I had the piercing out all of 15 minutes ok maybe an hour and it closed over. And no I didn't even get to have sex. I re - established the top hole years later with a taper and a sewing needle and it hurt a whole lot worse then just having it done.

    Let me know what you find in the way of devices. The only one i have been able to find is made by Lori and i just don't like the looks of it.
     
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    #11 I LOVE my Choice!, Feb 6, 2014
    Hey all!

    Thanks for the words of advice!

    Have been bathing twice daily in saline and showering with an antibacterial wash!

    Feeling good but sometimes I get the odd pinch with either my undies and/or the existing 2ga ring I have in my PA.

    Heading back to see the piercer on Saturday for a 'check up'! She said she wanted to see how things were going after couple of weeks.

    I really want to go up a gauge (coz I'm an impatient bugger!!!) but I know I need to wait......

    What I'd REALLY like is to have a smaller stud that doesn't exit the urethra like the current curved barbell does.... Would like to have it anchored inside urethra with, say, 4mm ball that sits behind the current PA ring and have an 8mm or 10mm ball on top!

    Will talk this through with Sarah on the weekend!

    Still out of my device :(. Asked my wife if she was intending on re-locking me soon and she said 'Shit yeah!!!' :)

    I feel naked and vulnerable without my cage......

    With the absolute kindest regards

    J.
     
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    #12 gweny, Feb 6, 2014
    very nice looks great !! reg. GWENY
     
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    #13 MaleChastityNow, Feb 6, 2014
    Congrats on your piercing! I also got my apadravya during the course of two separate piercings, and have had it twenty years now. Something I really like about it is the variety of different ways I can wear jewelry.

    When I got my piercings chastity devices weren't available like they are today, and it was common at that time to begin with a much smaller gauge of jewelry. I actually began with a 12 gauge and stretched up to a 4 gauge over a very long period of time.

    I've had my apadravya jewelry out a number of times through the years, and have never had any problem reinserting jewelry through the hole, even after extended periods not wearing any jewelry. However, the hole does shrink if I don't put anything in it for a while, and I usually start again with an 8 gauge piece of jewelry. The oddest thing is that the top hole tends to close tighter than the bottom hole when I don't wear any jewelry for a while.
     
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    #14 thundar, Feb 6, 2014
    Hope it is going well. I've had a " half-a-dravya" often by putting a short straight barbell with a small ball up thru pa and out of top hole and securing with ball on top. Big ring in bottom makes for nice rub feeling inside
     
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    #15 I LOVE my Choice!, Feb 7, 2014
    Thanks Gweny!!!!!
     
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    #16 I LOVE my Choice!, Feb 7, 2014
    Hey T!!!!

    I know we're all different, but may I please ask: What length barbell do you use for your half-adravya mate??!!!

    With the absolute kindest regards

    J.
     
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    #17 thundar, Feb 7, 2014
    Hey JD. Try 1/2 inch bar as it will float up if pushed from inside and not cause any discomfort.
     
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    #18 I LOVE my Choice!, Feb 7, 2014
    Thanx again T!!!!!!!

    J.
     
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    #19 thundar, Feb 7, 2014
    No worries
     
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    #20 I LOVE my Choice!, Feb 27, 2014
    Hi all!

    Got some new jewellery today!!!

    Had ordered some barbells of varying length and with different diameter balls, but was told they were unavailable after I'd paid up!

    BUT... I DID get a 12mm captive bead ring with an 8mm ball from that order!!!!

    Now I've got the two CBRs in - one on the bottom in the normal PA site and one in the top in the reverse PA. My wife looked VERY interested in trying them out!!! But she's tired tonight...

    Maybe soon!!!!!!

    Wish me luck!

    With the absolute kindest regards.

    J.
     
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    #21 I LOVE my Choice!, Feb 27, 2014
    Sorry... being egotistical!

    Wish US BOTH luck!!!

    With the absolute kindest regards

    J.
     
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