Locktober is off to an easy start. 2 days in I was let out to satisfy my wife's (keyholder) urges. As a consequence, I was allowed to sleep without the cage. I'll take it!
Day 4. Cage went back on yesterday and has been on since. My wife is having some surgery this week and will be out of the game for several days, so she hid the key in our house. If I find it, I can release myself temporarily or tell her and get 1 day knocked off my current commitment, which is now until November 2. Searching the house for that small key will be a challenge.
What's that word after #1 on the list? Looks like it starts with an M...? Sounds vaguely familiar, but I'm not familiar with it.
It looks like chastity-shop "The secret" key. I think that's the name. I'm asking because if you're new to chastity, that's pretty hardcore to spend $200+ on a key.... I'm looking into getting one for my Bride.
https://chastity-shop.com/collections/secret-collection/products/the-secret This looks like the picture. And was off on the cost...looks to be closer to $400!!!
Yes, this key is from chastity-shop.com. Price $400. I had a great customer experience with Chastity Shop. It’s expensive but its also very nice. It’s something my wife will wear and that is what I want.
Day 7 in chastity. Not much going on here other than the following discoveries over the past couple of days, which I have shared with my keyholder and now sharing with you: 1) My chastity device is comfortable. Usually, I barely know that it’s on. 2) The chastity device is impossible to escape (I have a PA piercing and the device has an integrated PA hook). 3) So far, has been impossible to cum while wearing the device. Hitachi vibrator did not do it. 4) Starting to feel a little desperate bc of the above - realizing that I have no power to change my situation.
Day 12. Still locked up. Wife has not been feeling well over the past week. So, I've been pretty much left alone in my cage except for brief time to shower over the weekend and this morning because one of my testicles somehow escaped the case. There have been moments where I have had intense sexual urges, but they usually pass rather quickly. I'm sure I will be rather sex crazed by the end of the month. However, I've also had moments of reflection and clarity about what's important to me in the relationship with my wife (mainly taking care of her emotional and physical needs and removing burdens of regular life). I think being in chastity has made me much more in tune to her and her needs. Funny, but I don't think it's because I'm trying to get something from her. It's more the realization that no sex or release for me will happen, and that frees me up to look at our situation differently. I've also had a lot of time to think about where my desire for this comes from, and I've realized that it has always been there. In the past, I've felt ashamed of the desire and been embarrassed for expressing it to her. However, being in this state during Locktober and sitting with this realization, is helping me to own these feelings and embrace this part of me. (sorry for the run-on sentence)